Here is a very valid question to any and everybody ...
I am in a situation where a very attractive young woman is pursuing me sexually...
Now normally, that's all there would've been to it - Attractive - *check* - Wants me - *check*
These days I'm a little more.....selective.
For the life of me I can't bring myself to be ACTUALLY attracted to this girl. She's is physically beautiful,
but her conversation and content are zero in my book. I have no interest in taking this to any other level other
than the level it's at - friends. That's right, she's stuck in the "friend zone".
So....how do you tell somebody that is pursuing you very adamantly that you're just not interested? And do it without hurting feelings because you do value the friendship you do have.
Yikes! Somebody help!
I am in a situation where a very attractive young woman is pursuing me sexually...
Now normally, that's all there would've been to it - Attractive - *check* - Wants me - *check*
These days I'm a little more.....selective.
For the life of me I can't bring myself to be ACTUALLY attracted to this girl. She's is physically beautiful,
but her conversation and content are zero in my book. I have no interest in taking this to any other level other
than the level it's at - friends. That's right, she's stuck in the "friend zone".
So....how do you tell somebody that is pursuing you very adamantly that you're just not interested? And do it without hurting feelings because you do value the friendship you do have.
Yikes! Somebody help!
slave2thegrind:
Well really you shouldn't have to say anything. Your points are valid, if your happy with where your friendship it at then its done. Plus most people would kill to have someone chasing them around, you have it, thats pretty sweet!
tactical:
I wouldnt even want to be friends with someone like that lol. I'd just try to let her down easy but be honest