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Friday Nov 09, 2007

Nov 9, 2007
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EDIT: To all of you lovely people who care, thank you so much and I will be in touch 1:1
My son IS ok -- but one mugging happened at 4p as he walked home from school with a friend on our busiest and supposedly safest street, and one incident happened at 8am as he was taking the CTA bus to school.

If you are the type who likes details, please see my long ramble of details spoiled at the very bottom.

We all tend to filter information through our understanding of the world and sometimes when bad things happen to other people, it can make us feel vulnberable, and our brain works to explain this by making the
fundamental attribution error
a.k.a., the idea that the victim must've contributed to their unfortunate mishap.

watch yourselves this week and see if you don't find yourself occasionally, unwittingly doing just this, as one or two of you have done here wink

ok, back to my original post, already in progress wink

p.s. The black beret and all? Thinking Art School Confidential meets Black Panthers with a little flava from Jackie Brown!!! kiss
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Such a shame. I was supposed to just be a regular urban woman/wife/mother/teacher/psychologist/
barackobamalover....

But my kid has been a crime victim twice in one month in our sorry-ass Chicago neighborhood.

SO it is time to take back the muthafreaking streets. I am forming a volunteer group much like the guardian angels of New York City


Because I am not getting any satisfaction from the police and the established local institutions that should be in action.

SPOILERS! (Click to view)
OK, I'm pissed enough to call out the University of Chicago. why not point fingers?



And I may be small but I am crazy, and you really, really
do not want to fuck with me!!! mad mad mad mad

I want Black berets and black angel wings. Bright red isn't really my color.

And then later, perhaps one of my amatuer SG sets with these?

As Shara Nelson and Massive Attack say:


Midnight ronkers
City slickers
Gunmen and maniacs
All will feature on the freakshow
And I can't do nothing 'bout that, no
But if you hurt what's mine
I'll sure as hell retaliate


You can free the world you can free my mind
Just as long as my baby's safe from harm tonight






SPOILERS! (Click to view)
my sweet boy is ok. My doorman's 14 yr old nephew was murdered at point blank range though, in a similar 4pm mugging in broad daylight, and he was also just walking home from school -- in a neighborhood 1 mile south and west.

my son and a friend were just walking home from school on our main drag, and then he took the chicago public bus (CTA) to school one morning, and when he was the last person on the bus, the driver drove off her route, turned off the bus, locked the door and wandered away for 20 minutes, telling him "i need a break".

well, this particular CTA busline is owned and operated by the universwity of chicago and is prominently advertised as the one safe way to get through our hyde park chicago neighborhood.

My children's school was very supportive, but a father at the school who happens to be the University person in charge of this busline stonewalled me. told me there were no witnesses and no way of doing anything. told me to watch all of the bus dirvers and to get the badge of the busdriver ourselves by watching all of the drivers and copying down their badge ID when we saw her.

Even high-ranking husband's phone call did not motivate him much initially.

Good thing I am a hot-headed reactive individual who went off like a cork and threatened to call NBCchicago and my atty!! i also let him know that the minutes from his mtgs detailing other safety breaches on this bus route were posted on the web for everyone to view. I wish i'd printed this out as the fool went and pulled these now.

anyway...

2 days later we got a long official email detailing the entire incident with my son as transcribed from the existing videotape from that bus ride!!! that fucker knew a tape existed and tried to send me away!! mad

the driver is on medical leave and has a disciplinary hearing upcoming. that is enough for me as i don't want her head per se, I want the people overseeing the drivers to know and to address it from the system-wide failure of safety in hde park!

finally, in 1988-1994 manhattan, when my kids went to a private school up near columbia university, it took ONE incident where a kid was hit coming home from school and the entire community banded together to create parent patrols form 3-5 to wlak thru teh neighborhoods to ensure the safety of kids walking home. Because after all, what we all have learned from the reduction of crime in NYC, Boston and LA, is that you have to have people WALKING THE STREETS to make the streets safer.

the University of chicago has a police force the size of the entire city of chicago police department and they are here to supposedly keep hyde park safe. both the U of C and city police this area.

In their cars, sitting their fat asses in their cars. a few are on bikes now, and i notice they are real fond of riding up and down the lakefront where there is minimal crime.

I have been to the university police to discuss foot patrols -- first did this in 2006 when there were 27 armed robberies of citizens in hyde park in a 6 week stretch. all of the robberies happened between 3-7pm, often the victims were with one or more friend.

stunning complacency, cover-up, victim-blaming and denial occur down here among officials designed to protect, and they do this bc they fear if peeople know how bad it is they won't send their kids to college here.

I guess the short of it is that when i had to hear from my grocery delivery guy that one of his customer's middle school daughters was also assaulted in an attempted rape at 5pm...

I am forming a parent patrol - my first foray into this will be tomorrow night's Parent association mtg.

If they can't do it on their own initiave, i hope that I can shame them into action with the idea that this petite angry 45 yr old mom is willing do to what they won;t.

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tntkatie:
are you kidding me? you were the one with the earlier morning that me! slept on the bus?
glad that at least you got home safely. it was a pleasure to hang out with you. kiss
Nov 18, 2007
unaffected:
that's insane. glad your son is ok.
i'm already in the married women only group and reading some threads a few days ago, i laughed to death! tongue
c'mon, you and my aunt are not so old...age is just a number, you may know that. wink
and please, don't report my husband. how am i supposed to live without the old man? blackeyed
Nov 19, 2007

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