carol called earlier this week asking if i could bring sara up this weekend. i said yes, and now i'm having second thoughts. everyone i have talked to has said that since the divorce isn't finalized yet, she can keep her, refile up there and then i'm screwed. i really don't think she would do that, but i'm not sure anymore. i'm so damned confused i don't know up from down anymore. i cannot wait for sept 26th to be here. then it will all be over, and i try (key operative word), to relax.