lostidentity

Last night, I finished reading the book "the lovely bones" and was so disappointed, not by the ending, but by the fact that this chick, had one chance to let everone on earth know where her body is, yet she chooses to make love to the only guy who ever got to kiss her. Ok, so I'm not really that experienced in the 'sexual' field of life, but come on, is it really that powerful over us? It just seems as though everyone thinks that all we want is sex. Well, I think contrary, but I don't think a lot of people know themselves well enough, so they let others decide what they want out of life. I dunno, maybe I don't have the 'right' to say anything being that I am so inexperienced, but when some author tries to tell me that even those in heaven would do anything just to fuck, I'm a little bit skeptical.