I was looking through some threads and noticed that old posts go first and new posts go at the bottom. I myself find that pretty stupid. No one should care what was said yesterday what is being said today is more important. I guess that's the norm for threads but I've never really never found it too smart. Anyway I didn't come here to complain. 
solaris:
i am also insecure.... just saying two insecure people in a relationship together is sometimes very messed up.