I’m writing my first little blog post on the not so flattering treatment of models on streams here. We have all been hearing the phrase “if you don’t have anything nice to say, then don’t say it at all.” Plot twist- that applies on this site as well. As fans we signed up for the models, the models did not sign up for us primarily. There seems to be this notion for some individuals that the models work for us and the customer is always right. Which is simply not true in the slightest. I’ve seen time and time again of users stating (not asking or requesting) that whatever said model on a stream needs to remove their clothes or bend over or some shit. That is not how to treat them, let alone how you treat any human. You would not approach a girl in a real life setting and make such statements or demands without expectation of a drink or hand hurling towards your face. Tipping the model on stream doesn’t change this. To use this analogy again, you can’t buy someone a drink at a bar and expect that they owe you anything. They are not even required to have that drink with you. Tipping is for appreciation and support and it’s not transactional. Many of the models have onlyfans accounts which is a more appropriate place to discuss special requests for money and these transactions should be discussed BEFOREHAND and not expected just because you sent them a random amount of money. It’s too easy to hide behind some obscure username and stock photo to mistreat the models on here. The goal should be to make the models feel supported and comfortable so they can further continue the hard, sexy work they put into this platform. That is why we are all here at the end of the day.
I know I’m preaching to the choir to most people here, but that being said, if you’re one of the polite ones then stick up for the models and callout poor behavior when you see it. Many of the models can handle these issues on their own such as @helenarae however just because they can doesn’t mean they should everytime. You can have her back and have any of their backs so they don’t need to take on all the abuse themselves.
On a final note, just because a model gets pissed and your demands doesn’t make them rude or a bitch. They are just looking out for number 1. And to any model that gives into this behavior because you will take any attention that comes your way with hope that the abuse will ease up later, please stop. Rewarding the behavior will only reinforce it and the downstream affects will have negative consequences to the other models. Thank you to the 1-3 people who will take the time to read this.
