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Your focus is a very mature one. I know how uncomfortable it can be when there's a conflict at a place you want to be a part of. I'm glad this is not the case with you.

What a coincidence about the Met. I hadn't been there in years, and didn't realize what a big place it is.

Reconciling with my friend was the highlight of my day. The strain on the relationship was all my fault and I thought that I had screwed things up for good between us. I'm very happy that I was wrong.

In the meantime, please keep in mind that in me, you have someone you can count on to be a friend to you. My schedule has become more flexible for the time being if you'd like to get together some time.

I normally opt for diplomacy when confronted... but sometimes, it's nice to open up with both barrels and keep firing until there's nothing left of the opposition.

"Wicked" rocked... I'm not a big theater guy (even less if it's a musical) but, damn... it was good. Now I want to paint my girlfriend green, but she won't let me... boo.

wow. now i'm dying to know what you said.

I think you're very wise. Holding onto something that causes you unhappiness holds one back from moving forward, regardless how much that person or thing means to him or her.

You're taking a big step in the right direction. You'll see that even more clearly as time passes.

Good choices are often harder to make. So I say good on you.

Thanks for the advice, I will try.

Thank you so much. I have faith in you and am in your corner. I'm here if you should need anything.

Do I have to come tie you down??

Even good things can cause problems when they're overdone. Please take care of yourself. A healthy body goes hand in hand with a healthy mind.

You've shown great strength in the past. I have faith in you regardless of the hurdles you're trying to overcome

Don't worry about it. I've seen your future... it all turns out OK.

I don't want to get a preview of my future. I think it would screw me up to know no matter what it was.

What I'd like to do is pick one day from my past and relive it. I know which day it would be too. I'm not sure of the date, but it would be in early October, 1983.

I'm so sorry you're having so much trouble. I'd be willing to come to your neighborhood to meet so leaving the house would possibly be easier for you.

I understand. The important thing is for you to feel better. I'm sure we'll meet soon enough.

in my book, i call this "tuesday"

I don't think there is an inappropriate place to have sex. If there's an opportunity, you should go for it.

I'm glad you like it. I do come up with a good one now and then.

Thank you. You're someone I'll always be there for when you need a friend.

That's music to my ears.

'Cause you're strong and awesome.

I guess fantasy is having a conflict with reality. Or something like that.

I go through that all the time.

the way you put it makes me suspect my moods work the same way but my brain keeps ahead of me with reasons why I'm feeling up or down.

I hope you didn't take your inability to give this person what he was seeking too much to heart. I know you as a sensitive, caring person, whose instinct it is to help others.

You can only do what you're cpapable of doing.

Keeping things inside is almost never the answer. Been there. done that. Reaching out is definitely the way to go.