I'm sorry to hear that. It is hard when you want to be with someone and they don't want you the same way. It is even harder I think though to have someone tell you they love you but still make you feel insignificant. I would appreciate her honesty and be happy she isn't leading you on. *Hugs*
My sister just sent me this, it's pretty funny. In case you haven't seen this commercial, watch this first then the second one. Some people have just too much time on their hands.
Well, I can speak Chinese, but I don't think I could understand Chinese men..
it indeed is one of the most challenging languages to learn, but it is so interesting ! it's an amazing language and philosophy.