How old is to old?
And when do you know when you should just walk away from someone....
I didn't want to post this but it has been bothering me and the only other person who I can ask I have and she doesn't know what to tell me. So now I am here....
There is a guy from work that I am "seeing". Okay well we have always been very flirty back and forth since I first met him when I started back in May. Finally I got sick of just flirting and decided to take it up a step and move it forward. But it was really hard to do because he is always busy with his kids on certain weekends and his BITCH on the other weekends. But I was NOT giving up on him. Well FINALLY I got him to go out with me on night.
And since that night life has been VERY good!
He has been treating me like GOLD! I have NEVER been treated by anyone the way he treats me. It makes me all tingly inside and he will call me or come up to me to tell me the sweetest things. Then he gets all embarrassed and shy and goes red and walks away. *LOL* it is to cute!!
Anyways here is the problem.....actually problemS. First off he is a LOT older then me. And why I say a lot older I mean he has a son that is 5 years younger then me...and no he didn't start having kids early....there is a big age difference. But it isn't that it is weird for us. I mean we are both fine with it, and we totally connect and don't find it weird. But I know if I moved it forward and started introducing him to some of my friends , and OH god, forget about my parents....they would NOT take it very well. But I don't care. I really do like him. But I need to know if I am just going to end up getting myself hurt in the end.
Second problem....he has a g/f. She is a fucking BITCH! And he knows this. SHe is crazy! She is a nut case! And he knows this! He even says it himself. But he won't leave her.....because he has "known her since they were pretty much in diapers".
I mean that is a TERRIBLE reason not to leave someone! I mean I know it bothers him, and even my friend, she says the same thing, you can just see it in his face that he doesn't know what he is going to do. *sigh*
I don't know what to do. Keep getting myself deeper into this....only to end up getting extremely hurt....or do I leave now and just deal with the hurt that I WILL end up with. Or do I wait and see what happens. I mean maybe he might make the just and leave her if he sees that I am not just in it for the sex.
Booo.... I don't know what to do.
And when do you know when you should just walk away from someone....
I didn't want to post this but it has been bothering me and the only other person who I can ask I have and she doesn't know what to tell me. So now I am here....
There is a guy from work that I am "seeing". Okay well we have always been very flirty back and forth since I first met him when I started back in May. Finally I got sick of just flirting and decided to take it up a step and move it forward. But it was really hard to do because he is always busy with his kids on certain weekends and his BITCH on the other weekends. But I was NOT giving up on him. Well FINALLY I got him to go out with me on night.
And since that night life has been VERY good!
He has been treating me like GOLD! I have NEVER been treated by anyone the way he treats me. It makes me all tingly inside and he will call me or come up to me to tell me the sweetest things. Then he gets all embarrassed and shy and goes red and walks away. *LOL* it is to cute!!
Anyways here is the problem.....actually problemS. First off he is a LOT older then me. And why I say a lot older I mean he has a son that is 5 years younger then me...and no he didn't start having kids early....there is a big age difference. But it isn't that it is weird for us. I mean we are both fine with it, and we totally connect and don't find it weird. But I know if I moved it forward and started introducing him to some of my friends , and OH god, forget about my parents....they would NOT take it very well. But I don't care. I really do like him. But I need to know if I am just going to end up getting myself hurt in the end.
Second problem....he has a g/f. She is a fucking BITCH! And he knows this. SHe is crazy! She is a nut case! And he knows this! He even says it himself. But he won't leave her.....because he has "known her since they were pretty much in diapers".
I mean that is a TERRIBLE reason not to leave someone! I mean I know it bothers him, and even my friend, she says the same thing, you can just see it in his face that he doesn't know what he is going to do. *sigh*
I don't know what to do. Keep getting myself deeper into this....only to end up getting extremely hurt....or do I leave now and just deal with the hurt that I WILL end up with. Or do I wait and see what happens. I mean maybe he might make the just and leave her if he sees that I am not just in it for the sex.
Booo.... I don't know what to do.
big_boy:
Age is nothing but a number......if he has a crazy girlfriend the shit could hit the fan 