Dudes.
What do I do about this shit?:
I'm a bit down today because I had a blowout with a friend last night who wants a little more than I'd like to give him and I don't quite know how to handle it. Again. I go through this with many of my male friends (read:all) and this point in our relationship is what I call the "put out or get out". It is when the guy gets his ego all bruised cuz I won't fuck him, which is something he was just sure was going to happen, and then gets all pissed at me because it's obviously something wrong with me, like someone must have damaged me really badly in the past or someting if I'm not letting him get that close to me; and oh he must not know me at all because I am so emotionally unavailable... It goes on and on like that with him analyzing me and doing me the favor of letting me know how fucked up I am because I don't want to sleep with him, when really what he's doing is showing me what he's all about.
My favorite is, "I thought I felt a connection." No honey, uh-uh. That was what we call a hard-on. Not the same thing at all.
The sucky part is that the dude in question (and this is always the case) has some really fantastic and rare qualities that I enjoy immensely. It would be sort of tragic to lose his friendship.
I have fucked guys before just to keep them as friends, and it never ends up being worth it. Fun, sometimes, but ultimately the wrong way to preserve a friendship.
This is why I started dating girls in the first place. This is EXACTLY why. I don't have to go through this with every single female friend I have.
What to do?
*sighs* Gee, kids, sorry to lay my probs on you so early in the morning. Kind of. Not really. It is my journal, though, so deal with my dumb shit or don't read it anymore!
On another note:
Did you guys hear about the guy in Georgia (the country, not the state) that tried to assassinate W.?
True story: He threw a grenade at our idiot president, but THE GRENADE MALFUNCTIONED and exploded before it hit him. ARRRRGH! So close, yet so far.
Kiss.
LR
What do I do about this shit?:
I'm a bit down today because I had a blowout with a friend last night who wants a little more than I'd like to give him and I don't quite know how to handle it. Again. I go through this with many of my male friends (read:all) and this point in our relationship is what I call the "put out or get out". It is when the guy gets his ego all bruised cuz I won't fuck him, which is something he was just sure was going to happen, and then gets all pissed at me because it's obviously something wrong with me, like someone must have damaged me really badly in the past or someting if I'm not letting him get that close to me; and oh he must not know me at all because I am so emotionally unavailable... It goes on and on like that with him analyzing me and doing me the favor of letting me know how fucked up I am because I don't want to sleep with him, when really what he's doing is showing me what he's all about.
My favorite is, "I thought I felt a connection." No honey, uh-uh. That was what we call a hard-on. Not the same thing at all.
The sucky part is that the dude in question (and this is always the case) has some really fantastic and rare qualities that I enjoy immensely. It would be sort of tragic to lose his friendship.
I have fucked guys before just to keep them as friends, and it never ends up being worth it. Fun, sometimes, but ultimately the wrong way to preserve a friendship.
This is why I started dating girls in the first place. This is EXACTLY why. I don't have to go through this with every single female friend I have.
What to do?
*sighs* Gee, kids, sorry to lay my probs on you so early in the morning. Kind of. Not really. It is my journal, though, so deal with my dumb shit or don't read it anymore!
On another note:
Did you guys hear about the guy in Georgia (the country, not the state) that tried to assassinate W.?
True story: He threw a grenade at our idiot president, but THE GRENADE MALFUNCTIONED and exploded before it hit him. ARRRRGH! So close, yet so far.
Kiss.
LR
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Finally showed up from Amazon, I love it. Thank you. Also:
I wasn't sure if it really happened, or if we were trumping up some excuse to get more fundage for the security of our president and our country.
So close, and yet so far indeed.
YARRRR