Gotta admit. After more than a year and a half of just staying single since my split with my ex-fiancee, I think I'd really like to get back out there. One problem...the women of Williamsburg suck. They have too much money, they're snotty, too class-oriented, too worried about their social appearance and what others think of them, and all-in-all...just too blah. I feel like the majority of the women here are an archetype for how to be Stepford Wives. And people wonder why I'm still single, heh.
I'm okay with being single since I refuse to just settle for second best. I've made that mistake before, several times actually, and everytime the relationship ended and left a bitter taste in my mouth. Anyway, the plan was to just stay single until I moved away from Williamsburg again, as I don't want to be tied down by someone in an area I really am not truly happy living. This place is way too confining and entirely too restrictive on how their citizens should be. While I love getting a rise out of the old windbags out here who find my sense of humor to be appalling, my views to be cynical (I think realistic, but whatever), and my personality to be a tad too sarcastic for their liking, this isn't what I want to continue doing. This is more to pass the time and to try to amuse myself while I'm in an area that really doesn't want people who aren't like them living in their nice, posh little town. With that being said, I have a lot of loose ends to tie up here, and I don't want to make the move until I am financially set to make it.
The next question is where do I go? Denver, where I lived for more than 3 years, is my top choice, but I'm not 100% married to the idea of going back, though I know I'd be happy with it either way. I've thought about other areas, such as Boston, Pennsylvania, South Carolina, and even Seattle, all places where I have some friends and connections. I need a fresh start, whether in Denver where I know the area, or a whole new place where I can completely start new.
The final question goes back to my opening statement of feeling ready to get back out into the dating field. Do I simply wait until I leave? I can handle being single, of course, because I am happy with who I am and don't need someone with me to be happy in life. But I am finding that more and more lately I've been feeling that pang of missing having a companion in my life. When you go to bed damn near everyday for over 18 months, it gets to you after awhile. Yes, I can handle it...but it is less than desirable, to say the least.
Whoever that girl maybe, I'm ready to find you, though I know I'm only speaking to white noise right now.
I'm okay with being single since I refuse to just settle for second best. I've made that mistake before, several times actually, and everytime the relationship ended and left a bitter taste in my mouth. Anyway, the plan was to just stay single until I moved away from Williamsburg again, as I don't want to be tied down by someone in an area I really am not truly happy living. This place is way too confining and entirely too restrictive on how their citizens should be. While I love getting a rise out of the old windbags out here who find my sense of humor to be appalling, my views to be cynical (I think realistic, but whatever), and my personality to be a tad too sarcastic for their liking, this isn't what I want to continue doing. This is more to pass the time and to try to amuse myself while I'm in an area that really doesn't want people who aren't like them living in their nice, posh little town. With that being said, I have a lot of loose ends to tie up here, and I don't want to make the move until I am financially set to make it.
The next question is where do I go? Denver, where I lived for more than 3 years, is my top choice, but I'm not 100% married to the idea of going back, though I know I'd be happy with it either way. I've thought about other areas, such as Boston, Pennsylvania, South Carolina, and even Seattle, all places where I have some friends and connections. I need a fresh start, whether in Denver where I know the area, or a whole new place where I can completely start new.
The final question goes back to my opening statement of feeling ready to get back out into the dating field. Do I simply wait until I leave? I can handle being single, of course, because I am happy with who I am and don't need someone with me to be happy in life. But I am finding that more and more lately I've been feeling that pang of missing having a companion in my life. When you go to bed damn near everyday for over 18 months, it gets to you after awhile. Yes, I can handle it...but it is less than desirable, to say the least.
Whoever that girl maybe, I'm ready to find you, though I know I'm only speaking to white noise right now.
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