Well, I've been going out with Effie from a few weeks now and it is going stunningly, although I have yet to win her over totally to the idea of exclusivity... she is fresh out of a 10 year relationship, and at the ripe old age of 23, that is pretty much the only relationship she has ever been in. So... I must be patient. I, however, am not dating around or anything, I am simply biding my time with this one. Waiting, and hoping that I can be what she wants. So far, so good, as she loves to spend time with me, and that is usually the downfall of relationships for me is that women don't seem to want to spend as much time with me as I do with them...