so i've started 'dating' a girl at work. she works in my department and sits a row over from where my desk is. she's kind of on the rebound from a one and a half year long relationship which ended about a month and a half ago. she was pursuing me pretty much since she started at my company about 3 months ago but i wasnt really too interested until we started hanging out and playing tennis and stuff. thats when we started talking about sex and it peaked my interest. we haven't 'done' it yet but probably this weekend it will happen unless we both realise that it would be too risky since we work together. i can see that happening. yesterday i could feel myself pulling back a bit because she had a needy look about her and it was turning me off.
the thing is i havent had sex in like 3 months. what a dillema.
the thing is i havent had sex in like 3 months. what a dillema.

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kiss_kiss_luxury:
i apreciate your input but dont worry, my life is not consumed by the guys i date (minus the asshole from RI, but thats its own shit in iteself). i kind of just use this place as a place to bitch about them. i have good friends and enough shit to keep me busy. you are right, i have been hurt, and i dont really expect these guys to live up to anything great based on my many bad experiences. but i also know enough to keep them at arms length for now, so when they do fuck up i just forget about them and move on. i am a pretty inrtoverted person so i tend not to spill my guts online for a lot of people i dont really know that well to read. that kind of stuff i go to my closest friends for. but i can totally see where you would see that all i care about are these guys, but dont worry, thats far from the truth

foi:
that sounds awesome! have fun with that ~
