Why is it faults we find in others are often faults within ourselves? Last night I shamefully admit to criticizing my 'boyfriend's' (and I use the term loosely) brother for constantly breaking up and getting back together with his girlfriend. However, this vicious cycle is something I've repeated more than once with my current lover, having a hot/cold relationship for over a year now. Problem is I am absolutely in love with him and don't want to lose the closeness and intimacy we've created between us, yet other times I want to stab him for being such a mother fucking ass...oops did I type that? 
I obviously need more boyfriends, and maybe even a girlfriendor two.
I obviously need more boyfriends, and maybe even a girlfriendor two.
VIEW 4 of 4 COMMENTS
I can totally relate to that as I'm sure a lot of people can. If I were single I would volunteer
Mele Kalikimaka!!
Usually when we voice our opinions on the negative traits of others, especially when we do it ourselves, you are actually expressing your opinion about yourself and only projecting it at that other person. You're releasing hate an anger for yourself at another, mainly because it is easier than confronting your own problem. It's a form of self-loathing.
I have done it, I think everyone has at some point.
Two guys I know hate one another because they both feel the other is a womanizer. The truth is, they both are. They see themselves in the other, and hate each other for it.
As far as needing more boyfriends, for what it is worth, I am always around if you need me.