lavinia

not having a clue about what's going on or not going on - if you want to talk to him call him. If he wants to talk to you he will, if not he won't.

Of course if he doesn't you're probably best to move on - there comes a point of diminishing returns when it's not worth continuing.

Since I've already got my mouth open and atleast one foot in - people only hurt your feelings if you let them - your feelings are yours to control.

Nobody ever gets that btw. Well, hardly anybody does anyway - but if you wanna be happy then choose to be, don't wait for someone to "make you happy".

GL

I probably spoke abit out of turn - it was a bit late and I was in one of those "not enough sleep EVER" zones if that helps.

Sigh.

Still and all - good luck and I hope it all works out for the best, whatever that may be.