lafayetteproulx

I'd like to start this off by saying I don't get involved in anyone's business but my own. What you do is what you do, leave me out of it. It's not that I don't want to know anyone's business, everyone loves to know everyone else's business, I just don't want to get involved. I've got enough problems of my own, I don't need yours.

That being said, my oldest friend (We've been friends since like 5th grade) just got engaged. The girl he got engaged to, I wouldn't say is possessive, but controlling is definitely a good work. Insane could be slid in there as well. So I wake up this morning and I'm going through the whole period where I'm still for all intents and purposes asleep I just happen to be up and mobile. I check my Myspace and I've got this angry message from his fiance that goes like this,

"hey pal!! You know its best not to tell Cindy mine and Jareds business we have had this talk how many times now??? Well thanks I am giving you the big boot I hope you have a great life!!!! Buh Bye!!!"

Cindy is Jared's ex, who his fiance hates with a fiery passion. Cindy and I don't talk, haven't talked since her and Jared broke up 2 years ago. So whatever happened is news to me. I call Jared to sort things out and his fiance answers his phone. She goes off about how she doesn't want people to know her personal business and I'm some wretched person for telling Cindy her business, even though I didn't tell Cindy anything but I had just woken up and didn't feel like getting in some petty high school argument. Apparently after 20 minutes of her bitching and going on she cut me off from being friends with Jared (She's done it before with another one of his friend's for the exact same thing) over..well...I'm not sure. I don't really know what happened.

Here's what I think. If you have a Myspace, a Facebook, a blog, you do not have any privacy. Anyone can find out who you are friends with, who you are dating, what you've been doing, all of that stuff you want to keep private and personal isn't anymore. You've given up your rights to privacy when you put your whole world on display.

Anyway I don't really want to deal with it. If Jared wants to let his fiance control his life, fine. I already know what I think about her and it's for the best that I don't have to deal with her anymore. Of course I'm sure if she ever saw this she'd claim I'm telling all of her business, but first she brought it onto the internet which we just pointed out takes away any amount of privacy and she involved me, so I have the right to tell whoever I want, which in this case is everyone.

So I'll try and call Jared and sort things out, but I'm sure things will end horribly because he wants to marry this girl for some reason, and I know he picks her over friends any time that's what it comes down to.

I just find it funny that I have no idea what any of this is about. Apparently I told someone that I haven't talked to in 2 years Brandy and Jared's business (I think it was that Jared got drunk once or twice, which is common knowledge) and I'm getting raked over the coals for it.

Well, the last thing I need now is petty drama so good riddance.