Well, here I am 33 years old and still never married, still no kids and quite proud of myself for it. Not because I'm trying to avoid it, but as time goes by, I've realized a strength of mine I'm not sure I ever knew I had. Many people my age (often younger) and in my position try desparately to believe the person they are with is THE ONE! I've realized (especially after the last "THE ONE" - aka the one that i found in bed with... well... someone else.) that I'm more determined not to settle for less than perfect. In other words, The more disappointment I go through, the more determined I am not to render myself mediocre and status quo for the sake of being status quo. Rather, more determined to make my life exceptional in my own eyes. Bloodied, but unbowed.
This comes off a series of dates and short-term relationships with gals that would make some men proud husbands or girlfriends, but were just not... right. My friends have been jabbing me for it, but I'm doing the right thing.
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This comes off a series of dates and short-term relationships with gals that would make some men proud husbands or girlfriends, but were just not... right. My friends have been jabbing me for it, but I'm doing the right thing.
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