kupkake

mk so i have this friend.... okay had this friend.
she got pregnant in high school, was totally "in love" with this guy that she cheated on my brother with. then marries him. okay whatever!
2 years later: she gets pregnant again and suddenly he looks at her and says " i want a divorce" (2 weeks before she gives birth).

Okay so through all of this i feel horrible for her... BUT theres the catch! she uses her friends and doesnt realize it and tells me that i need to grow up!

im like whoa buddy, wtf are you talking about, youre the one who got yourself knocked up and married a loser... and i TOLD YOU in the beinging it was a bad idea. (mind you she told me she poked holes in the condom).
so now she is raising these two kids (2 year old and 2 month old) and pawns them off and everybody so she can go off with her boyfriend and have all this fun. im like sure i'll watch your kids but... im not gunna keep watching them for a whole week and no supplies to take care of them... great parenting skills... wtf! she didnt even call her little boy to tell him goodnight or mommy loves you! who does that!!???!

needless to say... i dont think she was ready to be a parent and she did that to try and keep her ex husband... and now shes fucked bc she has lost me and one of her previous friends ... all in the same week, but still doesnt think shes the problem. i dont know how i should feel about this whole ordeal, because i told her i wanted to stay out of it....but it seems like i've been throwing into it!

i would just like to know if im overreacting....

those poor kids...