Hi SG world!
I have a not-so-good habit of thinking too much about my past mistakes and regretting them. So this is an easy topic for a blog. I know perfectly which advice I would give to teenage Ksew if I met her now:
1. This face and body is the only one you are going to have for the rest of your life, so don't waste your time and nerves hating it and being dissapointed over it. Try to accept it and love it instead. Work on your body and experiment on your look. Have fun with your appearance.
2. No need to rush into random people you don't even trust in search of relationship. It is okay to be single. It is not necessary to have a boyfriend all the time. Love will find you and meanwhile devote yourself to other things.
3. DON'T EVER TRY DRUGS GIRL. No explanation here. Just you will regret it. Always and for the rest of your life.
4. Don't try to be someone else to make friends with people and don't get depressed over being unpopular and weird. You are not supposed to be liked by everyone. More than that, in a couple of years you will not remember the names of people you meet at school, college etc. Stay true and be yourself.
5. When it comes to sex don't be afraid to ask for things that you want and to say that you don't like/don't want to do something. Sex is meant to bring pleasure and joy to you. There is nothing wrong with saying out loud your desires.
I would definitely have much more to say but I'd better not bother teenage Ksew with too much advice keeping in mind what a rebel she is who doesn't like to be taught. Yet I hope she would listen.
A picture of a teenage Ksew for you.
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