"
Pour my life into a paper cup
The ashtray's full and I'm spillin' my guts
She wants to know am I still a slut
I've got to take it on the other side
Scarlet starlet and she's in my bed
A candidate for my soul mate bled
Push the trigger and pull the thread
I've got to take it on the other side
Take it on the other side
Take it on
Take it on
How long, how long will I slide?
Separate my side
I don't, I don't believe it's bad
Slit my throat, it's all I ever" Red Hot Chili Peppers
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Met with my girlfriends for Girls night out last night. It was very awkward being around the one who was so ugly to me a few weeks ago. She has not spoken of that night since, and when she stared in about how much fun Circle of Death could be, I excused myself quickly from the table. In the bathroom I am saying to the wall "FUCK U" but she can't hear me. Funny thing is I think if I said it to her face she would not hear me.
Oh well, life has to go on. I am just not sure how to let hurt, unjustified feelings go.
Any ideas??
KRISS
Pour my life into a paper cup
The ashtray's full and I'm spillin' my guts
She wants to know am I still a slut
I've got to take it on the other side
Scarlet starlet and she's in my bed
A candidate for my soul mate bled
Push the trigger and pull the thread
I've got to take it on the other side
Take it on the other side
Take it on
Take it on
How long, how long will I slide?
Separate my side
I don't, I don't believe it's bad
Slit my throat, it's all I ever" Red Hot Chili Peppers
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
Met with my girlfriends for Girls night out last night. It was very awkward being around the one who was so ugly to me a few weeks ago. She has not spoken of that night since, and when she stared in about how much fun Circle of Death could be, I excused myself quickly from the table. In the bathroom I am saying to the wall "FUCK U" but she can't hear me. Funny thing is I think if I said it to her face she would not hear me.
Oh well, life has to go on. I am just not sure how to let hurt, unjustified feelings go.
Any ideas??
KRISS
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zenobia:
I have to agree with Kitschy. Talk to her. Even if you don't go into specifics tell her that she needs to be more considerate of what she says and how she says it. If she doesn't understand then giver her an example. I would just approach it like "Our friendship means a lot and I felt like I needed to talk to you about this so it can continue...." blah, blah, blah, or however you want to do it. I've noticed that if I don't speak up and say something then i begin to resent the person and become angry with myself for not standing up. But then again I've never been known to keep my feelings or opinions to myself. Anyway darling if it's worth saving then try if not then......
minxie:
+3....I'm a big supporter of telling people how I feel about them. Good, bad, or indifferent! I hope that this situation makes you reassess the individuals that act positively in you life. It's incredible how some people are in your life for a while for a reason and then just "magically" work themselves out of it. Focus on all of the great, supportive folks that are your family and friends...I hope that may assuage some of your hard feelings. Hugs from myself and C!