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TOP QUALITIES WOMEN FIND SEXY AND ATTRACTIVE IN A MAN

~UN-NEEDY/LAID BACK - Most men meet a woman and immediately are all over her. Since they are generally the pursuers, men think they need to attack like a shark. They chase her around, call or text her constantly, and basically end up messing it all up. This is not a good thing. Try pretending like you don't care. Call her and act like you could be doing something better. When you are talking to her at the bar, sit back in your seat and talk to her like you would anyone else. Show small signs that you are interested, but don't go too far with it. If a woman isn't sure if you like her or want to sleep with her, she will end up trying that much harder to get you to like her. It is a strong move.

~CREATE YOUR OWN REALITY - this is very important. Women love a guy who is aggressive and dominant, setting goals, achieving them, and continuing to stay driven. Since women operate very much on emotion, they want a man who remains in control, not letting detours or other outside factors affect him.

~FUNNY - Who doesn't like being around somebody that can make them laugh? Everybody likes to laugh. When you can make a girl laugh, she feels safe, happy, and comfortable. Women love this quality in men.

~HUMILITY - There might not be a bigger turnoff than an arrogant prick. Even if you are rich or good looking, or have a great personality, it is important to be humble about it. Don't be the idiot who needs to brag about it because that is a major sign of insecurity and women will pick up on it big time.

~CHALLENGING - Women want that challenge of getting a guy. This is so important! Guys think they need to give it up immediately or kiss a girl's butt until it's strawberry red. This couldn't be farther from the truth. Women need uncertainty, teasing, and game playing. Make them confused about how you feel about them. Remember, women operate on emotion. The more their emotions go up and down, the more female they feel and the more they will want you.

~NOTICE DETAILS - Women smell good, wear nice clothes, and decorate their houses nicely because they want men to notice. If she has on sexy shoes or a sexy dress, compliment her on it. "I like your hair, or I like your earrings" will do just fine. Don't overdue it. This will impress them very much.

~CREATIVE - This can cover a wide range of things. You could be a good painter, a musician, a good joke teller, a good writer, or someone with a quick wit. Anything that shows a sign of creativity is super hot to women.

~CARING/THOUGHTFUL - Women love to know that you are thinking of them and treating them kindly. Whether you give them a gift, or send them an email just letting them know you care about them, it all means that you are thinking about them. This goes far with women. Jealousy can also make them know that you were thinking about them, although you don't want to be the jealous guy all the time.

~INTELLIGENT - being an intelligent man is sexy to women. You don't want to bore her with geometry and space travel talk though, unless that is what she is in to. Be interesting and intelligent in a way that she can relate to and feel engaged in. Being charming to her with your ideas and feelings will surely turn her on to you.

~WELL GROOMED/DRESSED - Women want men that have style and are well dressed. The clothes don't have to be expensive. You just need to have a good look that fits your personality. You also need to have nice shoes. Women love shoes. If you don't know how to dress, or want the clothes that would look the best on you, have a girl take you shopping. One, they know what they are doing, and two, they love doing it! To them, it's like dressing a grown up doll.
Hygiene is also extremely important guys. This might seem like a no brainer to you, but you would be surprised how many guys overlook this part of attraction. Keep your hair groomed, wear nice cologne (you can also have a woman pick this out for you), always have fresh breath, keep your fingernails clean, and always wear clean clothes.
(TAKEN FROM: http://hubpages.com/hub/qualities-women-find-sexy-in-men)

QUALITIES MEN ARE DRAWN TO WITH WOMEN:
~Healthy Curves
Throw away those diet pills and start eating! Anorexia is not a fashion statement, it is a disease and no man would want a girl with that disease! Men like to see some good fleshy curves on women and like it when they eat healthy. So the next time you feel you are gaining weight, get happy about it! At the same time, keep it in moderation and exercise to get rid off the extra flab.

~No Make-Up Look
Yes, men find it sexy! In fact, after reaching a certain level in your relationship, your man will find it uncomfortable to kiss you when you have layers of lipstick. The no make-up and natural look is a turn on simply because of the fact that it is natural and not fabricated. Make-up may even act as a barrier at times instead of being a turn on.

~Confidence
It hardly matters whether you have the perfect face or the fab body, till the time you are high on confidence. Yes, confidence is a big turn on for guys and they find it absolutely sexy when the woman they adore is confident about herself. So whether it is deciding what you want in life or which restaurant to go for dinner, showing some confidence will definitely perk up your man.
(TAKEN FROM: http://lifestyle.iloveindia.com/lounge/what-do-men-find-sexy-2045.html)

~MISMATCHING UNDERWEAR
MOST women save the lacy stuff for special occasions and opt for comfort. Relationship psychotherapist Paula Hall explains: "Men love catching you in mismatching underwear because it looks like you weren't planning on having sex, but they've managed to persuade you."

~WOMEN WHO ARE GOOD WITH KIDS
IF you reckon your man is rolling his eyes as you play with nieces and nephews, think again. Mo explains: "It gives him visual evidence that she is patient and caring, and reminds him of his mother's unconditional love."

SO IN THE SEXAHOLICS GROUP THERE WAS A THREAD THAT WAS ALL ABOUT THE SMALL THINGS WE DONT NORMALLY THINK ARE HOT THAT REALLY TURN US ON... AND THERE WERE A LOT OF THE SAME ANSWERS.... SO HERE ARE SOME OF THOSE

LITTLE THINGS SEXY ABOUT A MAN.... WHAT US WOMEN THINK
~When they put their warm hands on a girls lower back.
~ Haveing a good vocabulary and being intellegent.. or at least trying to be.
~ When they paint girls toenails.
~ When they kiss a girls neck.
~ Girls love when guys kiss their foreheads.
~ When they give foot massages.
~ When they give a girl touches that are not sexual at all, but rather sneaky.... Girls think this is hot.
~When they slap a girls ass.
~ A smell of good cologne.
~When they pull hair.
~ When they neck bite or nibble.
~When they kiss a girls ears.
~When they trace or run their fingers along a girls body...tracing things such as body parts or tattoos.
~When they whisper.
~ When they have an accent or cant talk properly so they stumble over their words.
~ Playing with or ding and fixing a girls hair.
~ Taste of alcohol on their lips, tounge, etc... when you kiss.
~When they grab a girls hip bones and bring her closer.
~Putting a tounge on a girls neck.
~When they get tense or mad and their jaw clentches.
~ Scars
~Facial hair on men was listed time and time again.
~ Putting a hand in a girls back pocket out in public while walking.
~ Men who cook.

THE SMALL THINGS GUYS FIND SEXY ON A WOMAN OR WHEN A WOMAN DOES THESE THINGS.....
~ When a girl gets embarrassed, scared, red faced, etc... guys like when girls show they are normal and vulnerable.
~Girls who have great taste in shoes.
~ Having a good vocabulary and being intelligent.
~ Hard nipples... or cold boobs.
~ Batting their eyelashes and flirting.
~A soft moan of any sort.
~ Giving a guy a foot massage or any type of massage was liked by men.
~When women wear glasses.
~ Having a cute, sexy voice.
~ When a girl gives gentle soft kisses rather then the wild passionate ones.
~ A unique, good laugh.
~ Scratching a guys back.
~ When they tease.
~ When they whisper.
~ Body modifications.
~ Having nice shoulders.
~ Having a nice collarbone or bone structure in general.
~ Pelvic dimples on a girls lower back.
~ When they have scars.
~ Putting boobs on a gus back. Brushing boobs against a man.
~ When they dont wear makeup... Their natural look.
~ Smiles
~ Locking eyes... the look we give.
~ The flirtatious flicking of the hair.
~ When a girl sweats.
~ Girls that drink beer and are not afraid to eat.

I FOUND THIS INTERESTING AS WELL... HERE ARE THE TOP 10 COLOGNES WOMEN FIND ATTRACTIVE WHEN A MAN WEARS THEM.....

1. Prada Milano
2. Kenneth Cole Black
3. Dolce & Gabbana
4. Giorgio Armani ACQUA DI GIO
5. Calvin Klein Eternity
6. Liz Claibourne Usher
7.Gravity
8. Demeter Baby Powder
9. Calvin Klein Obsession
10. Hugo Boss
(THAT WAS TAKEN FROM: http://www.womenwant.info/2008/12/top-ten-ranking-colognes)

I COULDNT FIND A LIST FOR WOMENS PERFUMES....

HERE IS SOMETHING WHILE IN COLLEGE I STUDIED TIME AND TIME AGAIN AND ALWAYS FOUND INTERESTING.... THE TOPIC OF WHETHER PEOPLE TEND TO BE ATTRACTED TO THEIR OPPOSITES OR IF SIMILARITIES HOLD LONGER AND TRUER.... SO HERE IS AN ARTICLE I JUST FOUND TO BE INTERESTING...

ScienceDaily (Feb. 15, 2005) WASHINGTON -- Do people tend to select romantic partners that are similar to them or opposite to them? And does spouse similarity lead to marital happiness? In one of the most comprehensive studies ever undertaken on these questions, researchers at the University of Iowa find that people tend to marry those who are similar in attitudes, religion and values. However, it is similarity in personality that appears to be more important in having a happy marriage. The findings appear in the February issue of the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, published by the American Psychological Association (APA).

Psychologist Eva C. Klohnen, Ph.D., and graduate student Shanhong Luo, M.A., of the University of Iowa looked at assortative mating issues (mating based on similar or opposite characteristics) among 291 newlyweds who had participated in the Iowa Marital Assessment Project. The newlyweds had been married less than a year at the time the study began and had dated each other for an average of three and a half years. The couples were assessed on a broad range of personality characteristics, attitudes and relationship quality indicators.

Results show that couples were highly similar on attitudes and values; however, they had little or no above-chance similarity on personality-related domains such as attachment, extraversion, conscientiousness and positive or negative emotions. There is no evidence that opposites attract. What is most intriguing is that when the researchers assessed marital quality and happiness, they found that personality similarity was related to marital satisfaction, but attitude similarity was not.

"People may be attracted to those who have similar attitudes, values, and beliefs and even marry them at least in part on the basis of this similarity because attitudes are highly visible and salient characteristics and they are fundamental to the way people lead their lives," explain the authors. Personality-related characteristics, on the other hand, take much longer to be known and to be accurately perceived and are not likely to play a more substantial role until later in the relationship, they add.

"However, once people are in a committed relationship, it is primarily personality similarity that influences marital happiness because being in a committed relationship entails regular interaction and requires extensive coordination in dealing with tasks, issues and problems of daily living. Whereas personality similarity is likely to facilitate this process, personality differences may result in more friction and conflict in daily life," say the authors. "As far as attitudes are concerned, people who chose to marry each other should be well aware of how similar or different they are on these domains because attitudes are very visible and salient. This suggests that attitudinal and value differences, when they exist, are part of a conscious decision to stay together on the basis of other important considerations, according to Luo and Klohnen.

Given that their research indicates that similarity in attitudes and values may play a different role in relationship development than does personality similarity, Luo and Klohnen suggest that future research should examine how similarity in different domains are related to relationship outcomes for couples in earlier and later stages of relationship development.

Article: "Assortative Mating and Marital Quality in Newlyweds: A Couple-Centered Approach," Shanhong Luo and Eva C. Klohnen, University of Iowa; Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, Vol. 88, No. 2.

Full text of the article is available from the APA Public Affairs Office or at http://www.apa.org/journals/releases/psp882304.pdf
(TAKEN FROM: http://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2005/02/050213191438.htm)


OFF THE BLOG TOPIC NOW.... I SO DO NOT WANT TO GO BACK TO WORK ON MONDAY.... I WAS REALLY STARTING TO LIKE BEING HOME AND GETTING TO RELAX EVERYDAY....
I NEED TO FINISH CLEANING THE HOUSE TODAY AND GETTING SOME MUCH NEEDED LAUNDRY DONE.... AND MAYBE I WILL ROCK OUT ON GUITAR HERO WORLD TOUR AGAIN... THAT GAME IS KINDA ADDICTING REALLY.......
WELL ONE THINGS IS CERTAIN... I NEED TO GET A NEW TV... MINE DECIDED IT WANTED TO BLOW UP LAST NIGHT AND WELL THAT WAS THE END TO THAT TV..... AHHHH I REALLY DONT WANNA SPEND THE MONEY FOR A NEW ONE.... OWELL NOW I WILL HAVE A COOL WALL TV IN MY ROOM I GUESS!!! AND THAT IS EXCITING!!!

MUCH LOVE~ HOPE YOU ALL HAVE A GREAT WEEKEND....~ TALK SOON~