Having been awhile since my last post, and alot has transpired since then so I thought I would hop on here and catch anybody who cares, up to speed. I've been drawing unemployment for right at a year now, and it kinda sucks. However, a friend and I have opened our own small business and it's really been taking off. Yea I'm double dipping so hopefully nobody will turn me in. I am excited about the business, it's doing work I really enjoy, and working for yourself has it's definite advantages!
The other half and I have had our problems over the past six months, but things seem to be going rather well at this point. Still lacking in at least one department and I don't see that changing, but I guess I'll have to take the bad with the good. I'd like to find something to make up the difference (I'm sure you can figure out what I'm talking about) but I'm really picky. Not just anyone will do, for obvious confidentiality reasons. So for now, I'm content to spend alot of time on here looking.
On a less than happy note though, I feel like I lost my best friend. I had someone I could talk to and vent about things that bothered me and how my present situation and my options. and we used talk every day. I REALLY miss our conversations. Not to mention we had at least one thing in common in our separate relationships, a lack of fulfillment if you will. It was nice having someone you trusted completely to talk about personal problems that you knew anyone else wouldn't hesitate to blab to everyone you know. It's also hard because my other half has some sort of axe to grind. I could give the details, but it would be kinda pointless. I feel lost sometimes, I really miss her!
I also have a moral conflict of sorts. I'm the kind of person who genuinely cares for people. I consider myself and excellent friend. Despite most people having the opinion I'm an asshole, I hate to see anyone depressed. Even if I don't really know them. I just hate to see people unhappy, I know it's a fact of life, unhappiness that is, but if there is anything I can do. I try. To get to the point, how do you inspire someone to feel happier, or to change their attitude without genuinely "knowing" them? How can you convince someone to believe that through perseverance all things can be accomplished? and get them to take you seriously through the obvious argument, "you don't know me" I'll be struggling to find that answer. Any help would be appreciated
The other half and I have had our problems over the past six months, but things seem to be going rather well at this point. Still lacking in at least one department and I don't see that changing, but I guess I'll have to take the bad with the good. I'd like to find something to make up the difference (I'm sure you can figure out what I'm talking about) but I'm really picky. Not just anyone will do, for obvious confidentiality reasons. So for now, I'm content to spend alot of time on here looking.
On a less than happy note though, I feel like I lost my best friend. I had someone I could talk to and vent about things that bothered me and how my present situation and my options. and we used talk every day. I REALLY miss our conversations. Not to mention we had at least one thing in common in our separate relationships, a lack of fulfillment if you will. It was nice having someone you trusted completely to talk about personal problems that you knew anyone else wouldn't hesitate to blab to everyone you know. It's also hard because my other half has some sort of axe to grind. I could give the details, but it would be kinda pointless. I feel lost sometimes, I really miss her!
I also have a moral conflict of sorts. I'm the kind of person who genuinely cares for people. I consider myself and excellent friend. Despite most people having the opinion I'm an asshole, I hate to see anyone depressed. Even if I don't really know them. I just hate to see people unhappy, I know it's a fact of life, unhappiness that is, but if there is anything I can do. I try. To get to the point, how do you inspire someone to feel happier, or to change their attitude without genuinely "knowing" them? How can you convince someone to believe that through perseverance all things can be accomplished? and get them to take you seriously through the obvious argument, "you don't know me" I'll be struggling to find that answer. Any help would be appreciated
lenzie:
Miss you too :/
scandal_:
Hello! Thanks so much for your support on my new set. I most certainly appreciate it!