Hi.
For a long time I imagined how to participate more here, as I cannot think of SG as an social network (even it being). So from time to time I send some messages and friend requests.
At the same time I know about peoples life, I shared almost nothing about mine.
So this post is part of an start.
I'll try to be more present not only as an spectator but sharing more.
I know my english isn't the best, but this can be also a great opportunity to learn and practice. So don't get me wrong if some feelings can't get expressed the way I intended.
To begin sharing, I'd like to tell about my relationship. I'm married, with two womens, that share with me this SG account. So, first of all, they are aware of every thing that happens here.
We are into polyamory for a long time (even before we have met) and in a stable relationship almost for 2 years, living together. What can I say? There are some bad phases and some good as every kind of relation. But more than that, we talk a lot! If in a two person relation talk is important, in a three or more relation it is mandatory. We learn a lot with each other. We respect, we confide, we share, and most of all we never treat any thing as a bad thing because this is the faster way to block the chance to talk, and as I said before, talk is mandatory.
We are so far to be perfects and sometimes, on the moment, we overstate. But we know the value of apologise.
People keep trying to say that once you get hurt there's no way back, but for us it's a big lie. The only way there is no way back is if you don't give a fuck about the other. Everyone make mistakes, but not everyone can regret and apologise.
After the spoiler I put two videos about polyamory (one in english and another in portuguese). Check it and feel free to ask us.
For a long time I imagined how to participate more here, as I cannot think of SG as an social network (even it being). So from time to time I send some messages and friend requests.
At the same time I know about peoples life, I shared almost nothing about mine.
So this post is part of an start.
I'll try to be more present not only as an spectator but sharing more.
I know my english isn't the best, but this can be also a great opportunity to learn and practice. So don't get me wrong if some feelings can't get expressed the way I intended.
To begin sharing, I'd like to tell about my relationship. I'm married, with two womens, that share with me this SG account. So, first of all, they are aware of every thing that happens here.
We are into polyamory for a long time (even before we have met) and in a stable relationship almost for 2 years, living together. What can I say? There are some bad phases and some good as every kind of relation. But more than that, we talk a lot! If in a two person relation talk is important, in a three or more relation it is mandatory. We learn a lot with each other. We respect, we confide, we share, and most of all we never treat any thing as a bad thing because this is the faster way to block the chance to talk, and as I said before, talk is mandatory.
We are so far to be perfects and sometimes, on the moment, we overstate. But we know the value of apologise.
People keep trying to say that once you get hurt there's no way back, but for us it's a big lie. The only way there is no way back is if you don't give a fuck about the other. Everyone make mistakes, but not everyone can regret and apologise.
After the spoiler I put two videos about polyamory (one in english and another in portuguese). Check it and feel free to ask us.
Hugs and kisses
Belle, Dany e Felipe.
Deve ser como um relacionamento a dois, qualquer relacionamento vai ter altos e baixos.
Beijos aos trs