Brief backstory for any that may care- In Feb my wife told me she wanted a divorce- I moved to Dallas in May and took a new job and tried not to look back. I have tried dating but I really just need to meet people, be friends, whatever. I like it here and I am happy mostly, but I did find out this weekend that my soon to be ex wife(next month should be final) is seeing someone and received a ring from him. He has two kids, and she's being...motherly...I guess. I find it terribly ironic that I just broke off dating a girl with two kids because she was trying to move a bit fast and I know I need some time just being me. Seemed irresponsible to possibly string along someone especially when there are kids involved. People move at different speeds and the ex has never been the type of person to be alone for long...I know I should be happy for her and want her to be happy...but its just not how I feel right now. I don't want to an asshole...but I have no desire to be nice either. Ah well, in time it wont bother me
