I've been reading this book
The Mastery of Love by don Miguel Ruiz.
I'd read the Four agreements
also by him a few years ago and it changed my life. But I think I forgot alot of what was in it.
The Mastery of Love is more of a guide to relationships, where the Four Agreements is for life in general.
The book is really helping me to realize that most of my problems in this relationship are my own doing. I've been expecting too much of him, and wanting to fix his problems for him. I've been expecting him to do things my way, and that's not fair. People have to be able to deal with things their own way. We can't expect them to do things our way and by wishing they would, we just cause problems.
In order to have a relationship that works, we have to accept our partner for who they are and everything that they are. And I love my man, through and through. I have to start understanding that he is him, and I am me, and we will do things differently our whole lives. No 2 people are the same.
Anyways, I'm rambling now.
Have any of you read either of those book? What did you think?
If you haven't read them, I suggest you do. They are incredible.
xoxo,
Klied
