Hey friends,
Not to put my troubles upon anyone elses shoulders but I have a custody hearing tomorrow at 10 am, and I am pretty much scared to death right now about the whole thing. I know that I am a good father, and that I provide for my child very well, but that really doesnt matter when the Childs mother is out for blood....
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Not to put my troubles upon anyone elses shoulders but I have a custody hearing tomorrow at 10 am, and I am pretty much scared to death right now about the whole thing. I know that I am a good father, and that I provide for my child very well, but that really doesnt matter when the Childs mother is out for blood....
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Never turn your back on a four year old with safety scissors and a need for chocolate. I woke up this morning and got the kid up to get her ready for school, dodging the arts and craft supplies scattered all over the floor thinking "I'll clean it up later". I got the kid bathed and dressed for school, made breakfast, made her lunch and...
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banshee1:
I'm with buddha on this one. Sounds like too good of an accident to be an accident.
That is too funny!
That is too funny!
smuffy:
I never drink! But when I do it's always too much. I think last night was the worst ever. I was actually dizzy. That was god-awful. 
Heheheh, man, what a day. Doing laundry, cleaning house for the little one, grocery shopping, the to do list is long and domestic.
I have come to the conclusion that I have to grow my hair out long again for one reason and one reason alone. It is a much simpler task than learning to speak Spanish. I have received a couple of posts, emails,...
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I have come to the conclusion that I have to grow my hair out long again for one reason and one reason alone. It is a much simpler task than learning to speak Spanish. I have received a couple of posts, emails,...
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theretronerd:
what festivals do you go to? pow wows? i wanna go too!
arachnequarius:
hmmm, now see i pegged you for italian right off. perhaps because of my own italian half - the other half is crazyquilt southern. that is funny though - its a huge compliment for you, eh?
so yr all into the native american ritual ... what does that entail? can't wait to learn more about that.
nice having the wee one around again?
so yr all into the native american ritual ... what does that entail? can't wait to learn more about that.
nice having the wee one around again?
Alright, line up for ass-whippings........
Just kidding, that comes later.
I just finished a conversation with Buddha, and it got me to thinking as to why we havent really all got together yet. I can understand hesitation to meet up with me, given the nickname and looking like I do, but thats no real excuse. You will have the almighty Buddha there to protect you...
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Just kidding, that comes later.
I just finished a conversation with Buddha, and it got me to thinking as to why we havent really all got together yet. I can understand hesitation to meet up with me, given the nickname and looking like I do, but thats no real excuse. You will have the almighty Buddha there to protect you...
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buddha:
You know I'm game, but that does seem a little extravagent (yet enormously fun). That sounds more like a Holiday type galla... thou if every SGCT even is half has fun as the above plan..... FUCK, We win the battle of the SG communities
... now if we can only get our own stomping grounds on here
... now if we can only get our own stomping grounds on here
smuffy:
Hey Papi 
LMAO...
I thought you might like the new name. You are Hispanic yeah? Where from exactly. I'm sure you know this already but there is a pretty large population of Dominicans here in RI. Two of my best friends are from DR.
Anyway, I added you as my friend...I think you should add me...
I checked out all your pics...you look great and your daughter is absolutely adorable. I'm sure she means the world to you. Talk soon!!!
LMAO...
I thought you might like the new name. You are Hispanic yeah? Where from exactly. I'm sure you know this already but there is a pretty large population of Dominicans here in RI. Two of my best friends are from DR.
Anyway, I added you as my friend...I think you should add me...
I checked out all your pics...you look great and your daughter is absolutely adorable. I'm sure she means the world to you. Talk soon!!!
Thanks guys (and gals),
I woke up pretty much in normal mode again, I feel great. I had a superb evening with my daughter, we made the solar system outta hershey kisses foil (i had so many different colors that it worked), named the planets (she insists that mercury is named bakery, when i asked her why that is its name, she informed me that...
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I woke up pretty much in normal mode again, I feel great. I had a superb evening with my daughter, we made the solar system outta hershey kisses foil (i had so many different colors that it worked), named the planets (she insists that mercury is named bakery, when i asked her why that is its name, she informed me that...
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arachnequarius:
my, what a horrid oversight on my part! i have remedied the situation.
and do you know the willie nelson song "poncho and lefty"?
and do you know the willie nelson song "poncho and lefty"?
stiles:
welcome to sgmc.
I woke up this morning surprised at what I was feeling, and it scared and saddened me immensely. Its given that I miss my daughter (I havent seen her in a week now and its killing me), but I must say that I missed her mother for the first time in a very long time. I hate this, I really do. You shouldnt miss someone...
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theretronerd:
WHAT!!!! YOU HAD A CORVETTE AND GOT RID OF IT!!!?????? 
smuffy:
Hey thank you for the welcome. I just read your journal and you sound like a loving father and I'm sorry your ex still makes you feel like shit. Hang in there and we will do our best to make you smile and/or put a smile on your face. 
What can I say? Me and Buddha had a blazing' time last night. As far as details go, ill give you some clues and you use your imagination to put the puzzle together.
Here goes.
Corona 40 oz'ers, Pringles regular, a set of hospital scrubs, no sense of direction, lunatic behind the wheel, 2 chick magnets, 2 pockets full of cash, 12 suicide girls stickers,...
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Here goes.
Corona 40 oz'ers, Pringles regular, a set of hospital scrubs, no sense of direction, lunatic behind the wheel, 2 chick magnets, 2 pockets full of cash, 12 suicide girls stickers,...
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arachnequarius:
WOW - now that is a night!! sounds like much fun was had by all. where does one acquire a drag queen early warning system?
and you, sir, are a perfect peach! tx for yr kind words. this has been a schlumpy week, but you put a smile on my face. thanks much.
and hey - this chain mail thong is incredibly fetching. thanks for the tip. *hee*
and you, sir, are a perfect peach! tx for yr kind words. this has been a schlumpy week, but you put a smile on my face. thanks much.
and hey - this chain mail thong is incredibly fetching. thanks for the tip. *hee*
tracyramone:
thanks for the birthday wishes!!
Again, I am such a prick. I shuttled my drunken buddies around until the wee hours of the am, not expecting thanks or anything in return, just the knowledge that my friends were safe. However, that all broke down around 4 am this morning when one of the afore mentioned friends calls me up and informs me that he needs yet another ride home. I...
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buddha:
thanks for the great time man...
going to bed
going to bed
hippomonki:
thank you for getting mister buddha home safely, if i am ever in CT i guess i know who to call for a sobering bike ride home
oh and happy new year by the way !
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oh and happy new year by the way !
E
OK, I am soooooooooo back.
Who is going to the Hartford Bound????
I am, for sure, and I would love to meet up with any and all off you guys if you are going. If you are for sure, email me, if you need a ride, email me, if you want me to shut up about it, email me, If you need me to pour...
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Who is going to the Hartford Bound????
I am, for sure, and I would love to meet up with any and all off you guys if you are going. If you are for sure, email me, if you need a ride, email me, if you want me to shut up about it, email me, If you need me to pour...
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theretronerd:
welcome back! huggs
banshee1:
Happy New Year! Hope you had fun at Hartford Bound.
I have a headache YAY!
I have a headache YAY!
Hey Gang,
Sorry that i havent posted in such a long time, I am finally back in my house and waiting for the cable people to set up my connection. I am currently updating this journal from one of my clients office.
I hope that everyone has a wonderful holiday season (whatever holiday you choose if any) and that it is filled with the joy...
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Sorry that i havent posted in such a long time, I am finally back in my house and waiting for the cable people to set up my connection. I am currently updating this journal from one of my clients office.
I hope that everyone has a wonderful holiday season (whatever holiday you choose if any) and that it is filled with the joy...
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arachnequarius:
yay - yr back! best to you & yr sweet pea!! verymerry, happy new, solstice with the molstist, et all.
banshee1:
Happy Holidays to you and your family!
Friends,
I posted some pics if you care, got a new tattoo, about 100 more to come. I read your posts and I have to say that I am glad that I can say I know people like you, you guys so rule and I humbly bow to thee. I hope that everyone is snug, safe and secure (unless you want to be otherwise) and...
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I posted some pics if you care, got a new tattoo, about 100 more to come. I read your posts and I have to say that I am glad that I can say I know people like you, you guys so rule and I humbly bow to thee. I hope that everyone is snug, safe and secure (unless you want to be otherwise) and...
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welntaod:
We can hit the road like an old medicine show... You can be the barkin' salesman for roughly chopped nuts, I can be the cautionary tale of what can happen when one tries to chop nuts themselves.
theretronerd:
what happened to you??? AWOL???
Alright, what a wonderful day it is today. I read your posts and want to thank you guys for making my day. Here is the mushy part of this post, dont let it go to your heads.
Lets start by saying that you guys are deep. I love that about you. You have similar interests as me, but I must admit that you are way...
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Lets start by saying that you guys are deep. I love that about you. You have similar interests as me, but I must admit that you are way...
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alienprincess:
Hey! no worries!
I have a memory like a cheese grater. If it's not aforeign language thing, I'm screwed.
and as far as social skills go--mine are functional but uh- well, they're not pretty.
and you should see me tripping over empty wheelchairs at work- the rooms are so small- the handles get hooked in my pockets- I always have at least one totally unexplainable bruise.
and you should see me looking for my keys which I loose like every other day- ask welntaod-
Being there for your kid is the most important thing a person can do in my book. You get super big props for that from me.
and in reply to your post to me:
I'm sure welntaod wouldn't mind being volunteered for that, hehehe.
it's funny, I've never been in the service, but I'm getting better and better at volunteering other people for stuff at work-- or at least getting them to do what they're supposed to be doing.
anyway, I know I have a lot of weirdo esoteric interests, and I'm used to people not knowing what I'm talking about. I know there are people who can be snooty about that sort of thing, but there's so much stuff I don't know, that I just can't judge someone for not knowing about my weirdo stuff.
And like when welntaod starts talking about music- my eyes glaze over. I start using all of my talking-to-a-person-with -dementia skills
*reasuring voice*
yes
ooooh
okay
uhuh
yeah
oh, that's nice
I'm sure it will be okay
anyway, gotta run
I have a memory like a cheese grater. If it's not aforeign language thing, I'm screwed.
and as far as social skills go--mine are functional but uh- well, they're not pretty.
and you should see me tripping over empty wheelchairs at work- the rooms are so small- the handles get hooked in my pockets- I always have at least one totally unexplainable bruise.
and you should see me looking for my keys which I loose like every other day- ask welntaod-
Being there for your kid is the most important thing a person can do in my book. You get super big props for that from me.
and in reply to your post to me:
I'm sure welntaod wouldn't mind being volunteered for that, hehehe.
it's funny, I've never been in the service, but I'm getting better and better at volunteering other people for stuff at work-- or at least getting them to do what they're supposed to be doing.
anyway, I know I have a lot of weirdo esoteric interests, and I'm used to people not knowing what I'm talking about. I know there are people who can be snooty about that sort of thing, but there's so much stuff I don't know, that I just can't judge someone for not knowing about my weirdo stuff.
And like when welntaod starts talking about music- my eyes glaze over. I start using all of my talking-to-a-person-with -dementia skills
*reasuring voice*
yes
ooooh
okay
uhuh
yeah
oh, that's nice
I'm sure it will be okay
anyway, gotta run
arachnequarius:
awwww, how sweet are you/ what a lovely post. to echo other comments, life is not a race. if you are fighting the good fight in your way in your time, then you are awesome.
any human being brave enough to raise a socially prepared and conscious child in this world is a freakin' hero! so many people think that children are their little ego accessories. you obviously love your daughter! what better thing couldja do, really?
as for the other stuff, dude ... klutzorama over here. i mean, i was a dancer, but i cannot walk :
a. in a straight line
b. without running into something/one
c.without tripping
d. with all of my clothes appropriately fastened
the bruises, cuts, and sprains from merely existing in the world are enumerable!
my thing is this - materiality is a chosen reality. the world of material space exists, sure, but your engagement with it is always a choice. like any other choice, you must accept the consequences. i don't like to think that the world has limits, i don't like edges or endings, so i constant falldowngoboom. c'est la vie.
hooya - all about the rationalization.
btw, ya seem plenty smart to me!
any human being brave enough to raise a socially prepared and conscious child in this world is a freakin' hero! so many people think that children are their little ego accessories. you obviously love your daughter! what better thing couldja do, really?
as for the other stuff, dude ... klutzorama over here. i mean, i was a dancer, but i cannot walk :
a. in a straight line
b. without running into something/one
c.without tripping
d. with all of my clothes appropriately fastened
the bruises, cuts, and sprains from merely existing in the world are enumerable!
my thing is this - materiality is a chosen reality. the world of material space exists, sure, but your engagement with it is always a choice. like any other choice, you must accept the consequences. i don't like to think that the world has limits, i don't like edges or endings, so i constant falldowngoboom. c'est la vie.
hooya - all about the rationalization.
btw, ya seem plenty smart to me!
sending all my
for both of you!