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So she went and saw a lawyer the tuesday before thanksgiving. Apparently she has grounds to file for a divorce.. something like Spousal Abandonment, or something like that. However she wants to do this peacefully and be civil about it.. as after we sell the house neither of us will have too much free money I'm sure.

Going from a house to an apartment is...
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looks like a separation is coming this spring...

This outta be fun

and just when I think we're making progress she reiterates her desire for a divorce...

So a month later into counseling and I would say things are getting better. It's amazing how much of our problems are just because we don't really know how to effectively communicate with one another. Sure we talk, sure we argue but thats where the problem is. When we argue neither of us get anything accomplished because we're not really HEARING each other.

I've learned...
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Two session.. I wouldn't expect anything groundbreaking but I'd say we're making progress at least. Still kinda feels like my wife doesn't care if we make progress though. That hurts.

We have our first counseling session monday night.. I must admit thought that it seems more like I"m interested but my wife is just doing it because she's suggested it in the past. She doesn't seem hopeful at all. Hopeuflly I'm reading it wrong, but thats just the vibe I'm getting.

So... been a while since I updated...

So.. anyone know much about marriage counseling? and or possibly divorce and custody?

vacation was awesome, NYC wasn't rude at all! Surprise, Surprise.. Boston was fabulous as always. Hit the new Hard Rock twice.. btw, they moved it to Fanuel Hall/Quincy Market area.. the old one is CLOS-ED. I swear if I could talk my wife into moving up that way I'd do it in a heartbeat.

OH man, is it thursday already? Well next week I'll be doing final prep for the big vacation.. WOOT!
Friday Driving to Southern Jersey/Northern Delaware, then saturday driving up to JFK to pick up my buddy and his girlfriend. Saturday and Sunday seeing the big hoopla over NYC (i'm not expecting to love the city), then Monday driving up to Boston (Norwood more specifically). Yes...
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Can I just say I totally have a crush on Lovely. She's such a babe. Perfect curves, and just that look. That look that says I'm such a sweetie, and I can be a total bitch when you piss me off, all at the same time.