I wonder if I will ever have a friend who thinks of me as just that and not the resident counselor? A good friend of mine married an asshole about a year ago, and now it seems that he has become comfortable enough in their relationship that he feels he can abuse her. Somehow I just don't believe this is a new thing, abuse just doesn't start overnight. Well, I'm trying to get her to move, and she is telling me how much she loves him and doesn't want to leave him. Help me out, where does beat me and abuse me equal love? That one I will never understand. I guess dealing with this is why I have been in such a rotten mood lately. I wish she was closer then it would be easier to deal with, but, she is one of my best friends so I will be here for her. Ok, end of my rant for the day. 
just let her know you are there for her, thats all you can do for now it seems.
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cheers!