kengineer

With the lord as my witness (actually I'm an atheist but it makes a good interjection) I have no idea who is gay/bi/straight/sleeping with who/exclusive/poly. The bios are no help. The comment boards are no help. I'm an engineer, dammit, not a sociologist! I wish someone would just send me the spreadsheet. Or would that be a PowerPoint presentation? Well, Marie's pretty "out". When two girls pose together, chewing each other's clothes off, does that mean they're lovers? Former lovers? Good friends comfy with each other's skin? What if they pose together three times? The lesson being, of course, to focus less on the label and more on the person. Why should I care who is in who'se pants? I just need to find someone else who worships Frank Miller's comics, John Varleys's novels, Alan Shepard, and sprinkles "In Tyler We Trust" into conversation expecting it to make sense. Someone to connect with for a little adult conversation and/or geekness. Gender, preference, and exclusivity should not be huge concerns to me.

Except this is not perfect world and I am not a perfect being. I am two years past my divorce and I am highly motivated to meet new people and network my way to a new girlfriend. I lucked into a summer fling with a goth girl and now I'm sold. So I'm jumping into the game and mixing it up as much as time allows. In the end, maybe I'll shake two or three new friends out of the tree and perhaps even some good goth lovin'. If I have to glue wings on a pig, well, I used to design brain implants, so a flying pig is do-able. What's my budget?

As far as a photo goes, I just lost two rounds with my scanner. I'm working on it, believe me.