Sometimes I let my mouth do the talking without giving much thought to what the consequences are. It was brought to my attention that it seemed as though I was talking solely about the beautiful Opaque's set going up, when in fact, it was just general frustration with the site, not some personal vendetta I have for her in particular! I apologise to anyone who thought I was being a giant bitch about the situation--sometimes I just don't think too hard about what I say.
But I have also had strong words with another female member on here, and i don't understand why exactly. I commented on a male's member's blog containing an incestuous fantasy story, only to undergo personal attack from her. I cannot sit back and watch somebody make a mockery of incest when I know what it does to people and their families--it, to me, is the same as murder, but instead of taking someone's physical presence, you are robbing them of their soul and capability to function as a normal person. My best friend in the world went through incest for many years as a child, and she has never been the same. It is a constant struggle for her to maintain personal relationships and to stay off the drugs she abused for so long as a way to forget the tragedy she had to suffer. To see some fucking creep take such a serious subject and turn it into jackoff material hurts and disgusts me, and I don't think it's fair to the girls who may have gone through this, or any kind of sexual abuse or assault.
Now, I sure didn't back down from this personal attack, but it makes me feel childish and ignorant to be involved in bullshit like that. It hurts me that this is pretty much what the comment boards and groups have dissolved into. I simply do not understand why some of the people on this site have become so nasty, and where the sense of community and getting along with other members went. There are so many people on here now who just seem to want to start trouble and say the worst things they can to each other. I don't get it.
I suppose I'm just too often opinionated, and too rarely give a fuck.
But I have also had strong words with another female member on here, and i don't understand why exactly. I commented on a male's member's blog containing an incestuous fantasy story, only to undergo personal attack from her. I cannot sit back and watch somebody make a mockery of incest when I know what it does to people and their families--it, to me, is the same as murder, but instead of taking someone's physical presence, you are robbing them of their soul and capability to function as a normal person. My best friend in the world went through incest for many years as a child, and she has never been the same. It is a constant struggle for her to maintain personal relationships and to stay off the drugs she abused for so long as a way to forget the tragedy she had to suffer. To see some fucking creep take such a serious subject and turn it into jackoff material hurts and disgusts me, and I don't think it's fair to the girls who may have gone through this, or any kind of sexual abuse or assault.
Now, I sure didn't back down from this personal attack, but it makes me feel childish and ignorant to be involved in bullshit like that. It hurts me that this is pretty much what the comment boards and groups have dissolved into. I simply do not understand why some of the people on this site have become so nasty, and where the sense of community and getting along with other members went. There are so many people on here now who just seem to want to start trouble and say the worst things they can to each other. I don't get it.
I suppose I'm just too often opinionated, and too rarely give a fuck.
VIEW 4 of 4 COMMENTS
So BrokenOne, anonymouse was looking for drama, and you're commenting on something you know nothing about and while Kelsie didn't have to say anything to him, i really fucking appreciate that she did. There is a place and time for what he did and as per TOS this is NOT the place. period. He was a creep. end.
Kelsie, it was a sense of community that got results. While i agree the site has gone downhill, this incident proves that there are still a lot of good parts of the site and people who look out for each other.