So just recently I reconnected with a friend from high school. We literally had been friends since 3rd grade up through high school. We had our share of fights and stuff but always were friends again. But we both kinda got in relationships and just moved on from being friends he got new friends that I didn't hang out with and that was that. So we would still see each other after high school and do the oh hi we are being friendly just cause our past. But we never hung out or called each other or anything.
a little background on the whole friendship
met in 3rd grade and did the play on the playground and he had a cousin that lived down the street together and I was a little tomboy so we played on weekends when he was there. We did the little we are boyfriend and girlfriend thing in grade school you know oh that is my boyfriend but we never go anywhere together. But then you know we got to middle school and went our seperate ways but he moved close so we became friends again.I literallly walked to his house every day or he was at mine. We were always together to the point that many people thought we were dating. This guy knew everything about me and was always there for me. He was the person who was there for me through my 1st heartbreak and i dont know what i would of done without him there for that.High school we remained friends of course we made some friends that the other didnt hang out with but we remained friends. Then you know you grow apart when you get a girlfriend/boyfriend which is what happened with us. The rest of high school was spent with him in the drama club with all those friends and me with my same group of friends and we talked on occasion but it just wasnt the same.... it really hurt though.So he got married about three years ago and we were kinda talking at that point and I didnt recieve a invite to his wedding. I think that is when I knew to just give up. I was always the one trying to get the friendship to work and I honestly couldnt do it anymore. I was just hurting myself in the process. But i never really got over it....I thought about him alot and when I saw him I just hoped we could reconnect again. So on with the story
I got a text the other night that a mutual friend found out he was getting divorced and I was shocked. He married his high school sweetheart and I thought that they would be together forever. I still had his cellphone number so I text him and asked him how he was. I decided I was gonna be a adult and extend a hand in hope that we could start the friendship over. I knew he was probably was hurting and needed friends so I went ahead and decided now may be the only chance I get. So we have been talking and I have been trying to be there for him and we have just picked up where we left off it seems like. We have plans to go to lunch tomorrow and I am gonna go to his house and see his house that he is buying. I am excited and nervous. Cause there is so much history between us and I dont know if he has changed as a person or not.But I cant wait. I literally almost cried when I reconnected with him. It just felt so nice to have him in my life again. I Mean this is the one person that knew me more then anyone for years and years of my life(before my hubby obviously ) It just is a great feeling. It kinda sucks that a horrible thing in his life is what brought us back together. but i just wanna be the friend I know how to be and be there for him.
so anyways off all the sappy stuff.
Hanging out with my friend Charles tonight. American Idol and 16 and Pregnant are on tonight. and the hubby is making homemade pizza it is gonna be a good night
well just wanted to write about a positive experience for me that i am so excited about.
everyone have a good night
katie
a little background on the whole friendship
met in 3rd grade and did the play on the playground and he had a cousin that lived down the street together and I was a little tomboy so we played on weekends when he was there. We did the little we are boyfriend and girlfriend thing in grade school you know oh that is my boyfriend but we never go anywhere together. But then you know we got to middle school and went our seperate ways but he moved close so we became friends again.I literallly walked to his house every day or he was at mine. We were always together to the point that many people thought we were dating. This guy knew everything about me and was always there for me. He was the person who was there for me through my 1st heartbreak and i dont know what i would of done without him there for that.High school we remained friends of course we made some friends that the other didnt hang out with but we remained friends. Then you know you grow apart when you get a girlfriend/boyfriend which is what happened with us. The rest of high school was spent with him in the drama club with all those friends and me with my same group of friends and we talked on occasion but it just wasnt the same.... it really hurt though.So he got married about three years ago and we were kinda talking at that point and I didnt recieve a invite to his wedding. I think that is when I knew to just give up. I was always the one trying to get the friendship to work and I honestly couldnt do it anymore. I was just hurting myself in the process. But i never really got over it....I thought about him alot and when I saw him I just hoped we could reconnect again. So on with the story
I got a text the other night that a mutual friend found out he was getting divorced and I was shocked. He married his high school sweetheart and I thought that they would be together forever. I still had his cellphone number so I text him and asked him how he was. I decided I was gonna be a adult and extend a hand in hope that we could start the friendship over. I knew he was probably was hurting and needed friends so I went ahead and decided now may be the only chance I get. So we have been talking and I have been trying to be there for him and we have just picked up where we left off it seems like. We have plans to go to lunch tomorrow and I am gonna go to his house and see his house that he is buying. I am excited and nervous. Cause there is so much history between us and I dont know if he has changed as a person or not.But I cant wait. I literally almost cried when I reconnected with him. It just felt so nice to have him in my life again. I Mean this is the one person that knew me more then anyone for years and years of my life(before my hubby obviously ) It just is a great feeling. It kinda sucks that a horrible thing in his life is what brought us back together. but i just wanna be the friend I know how to be and be there for him.
so anyways off all the sappy stuff.
Hanging out with my friend Charles tonight. American Idol and 16 and Pregnant are on tonight. and the hubby is making homemade pizza it is gonna be a good night
well just wanted to write about a positive experience for me that i am so excited about.
everyone have a good night
katie
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that's great