No, no one is pregnant!!! 
It is quite a good thing........
I have decided to let my ex move in with me. 2 reasons for this.
1 is so that she can go to truck driving school and begin a career that will make her happy; financially, physically, spiritually, and emotionally!!! She has dreams and needs a path that will help her dreams come true. I will also train her and we will run team together until she gets sick of me!!!
2 is because I have decided to undergo Gastric Bypass Surgery. If you don't know what that is.......this might help.
I have been thinking about doing this for years, but until now it was for all the wrong reasons. I finally love who I am......and some of you who really know me, know this. I love life and want to live a long healthy life. I will be out of work for about 6 to 8 weeks after the surgery and Lori has told me she wants to help......she even offered to pay for it if it would make ME happy!!! The Surgery costs about $19000 USD. She had no Idea how much it would cost, but by saying that........it was the biggest gift of love anyone has ever given to me. 
We do admit that we love each other......but we're not "in love" with each other. That may change in time, but I don't look for that to happen......call me pessimistic!!! I will always be there for her and her for me and that is good enough!!! 
I just feel real lucky to have her in my life!!! We always have a great time together......but I try not to kiss and tell!!! 
As far as Lori goes, 1 day at a time. But I know you will.
You're right about it's what inside that matters.... Well, she's pretty darn skinny now, isn't she? That's well done, losing so much weight...
I'm not a very sociable person, actually. I'm kinda shy. But making friends with coworkers is not a bad thing I think. It's great at my work, coz we're all pretty young. The youngest being 21 (and we tease her a lot), the oldest being 31. We have a trainee now, he's in his 50'ies, doesn't really fit in, but he's been the boss of this place some yrs ago. I don't like him. Our current boss is in his 30ies.
It's really nice that you 2 have each other to take care of one another. Seems like you have quite a special bond...