<KaiRANT>
So heres some background information. I recently lost 30 lbs. I'm a member of the Plus Size Women's Group here on SG. And I have never in my life receieved so much hate mail from an organization I was a part of. I joined the PSW group about a year ago because I am indeed a bigger girl. I wanted support I wanted advice and most of all I wanted to feel like I fit in somewhere because living in New York City in todays day and age it's hard when youre not a super model.
I'm now leaving the group. I have receieve copious private messages about how I am indeed not fat enough to be a plus size woman. The absurity in this and my igonrance as to just how underconfident these women are made this such a big shock. Then to hear from the group leader that it is justified because the thinner women in the group do indeed get more comments is a crock of shit. maybe the thinner girls get more comments because theyre proud to be what they are... so proud indeed that they dont send hate mail.
This isnt bout the person or the act its about the lack of acceptence. I feel like im not thin enough for the thin girls and im not fat enough for the fat girls... well isnt that just life. Plus Size Women complain about lack of acceptence by society but they dont even accept their supporters. It doesnt matter who gets more comments... it doesnt matter how many boys droll over their sets. If I was here to be judged off of my apperence I would go to a fucking night club. I enjoyed how on the internet people would judge you by what you said rather then what you looked like or what brand sneakers you were wearing.
This has completely disgusted me and proven to me that there is indeed no where one can be accepted. Acceptence is not possible. No matter how much you accept yourself or others no one will accept you back. this is bullsht.
</KaiRANT>
So heres some background information. I recently lost 30 lbs. I'm a member of the Plus Size Women's Group here on SG. And I have never in my life receieved so much hate mail from an organization I was a part of. I joined the PSW group about a year ago because I am indeed a bigger girl. I wanted support I wanted advice and most of all I wanted to feel like I fit in somewhere because living in New York City in todays day and age it's hard when youre not a super model.
I'm now leaving the group. I have receieve copious private messages about how I am indeed not fat enough to be a plus size woman. The absurity in this and my igonrance as to just how underconfident these women are made this such a big shock. Then to hear from the group leader that it is justified because the thinner women in the group do indeed get more comments is a crock of shit. maybe the thinner girls get more comments because theyre proud to be what they are... so proud indeed that they dont send hate mail.
This isnt bout the person or the act its about the lack of acceptence. I feel like im not thin enough for the thin girls and im not fat enough for the fat girls... well isnt that just life. Plus Size Women complain about lack of acceptence by society but they dont even accept their supporters. It doesnt matter who gets more comments... it doesnt matter how many boys droll over their sets. If I was here to be judged off of my apperence I would go to a fucking night club. I enjoyed how on the internet people would judge you by what you said rather then what you looked like or what brand sneakers you were wearing.
This has completely disgusted me and proven to me that there is indeed no where one can be accepted. Acceptence is not possible. No matter how much you accept yourself or others no one will accept you back. this is bullsht.
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liam_the_zombie:
Meep! ^__^
klu:
you rock!