There aren't a ton of things that really bug me in life. I'm a pretty easy going fella, I don't get annoyed easily, I'm generally calm, cool, and collected. I'm rational and level-headed and possess remarkable control in most situations.
One thing that truly pisses me off is flakes. If you tell me you're going to do something, just do it. And hell, if something comes up and you can't do it then tell me. And if it's something you were *supposed* to do and you didn't I like the idea of the next contact involving an apology, no matter how small. It's just a simple acknowledgment that you know there was something you said you would do but didn't.
Case in point, simple case but not the first time with this person; I was supposed to help a friend move yesterday. I'd have to drive 90 miles to get to her and she was supposed to contact me via text or voicemail in the morning while I was still at work to let me know of the plan and needs. I got a call at 3:30pm when I got out of work (two hours later than I anticipated getting out of work no less and originally I was going to leave straight from work to go to help). Now I just don't feel like helping anymore. I think instead I'll go to a movie and take a walk and just lounge around on this beautiful day instead.
I'll enjoy my day off more.
On a side and quite happy note, 6 weeks (and 7 & 1/2 hours) til I'm leavin' on a jetplane to a land down under to hang out with Paul Hogan... That's what you people do down there, right? Kick it with Dundee? Right?
One thing that truly pisses me off is flakes. If you tell me you're going to do something, just do it. And hell, if something comes up and you can't do it then tell me. And if it's something you were *supposed* to do and you didn't I like the idea of the next contact involving an apology, no matter how small. It's just a simple acknowledgment that you know there was something you said you would do but didn't.
Case in point, simple case but not the first time with this person; I was supposed to help a friend move yesterday. I'd have to drive 90 miles to get to her and she was supposed to contact me via text or voicemail in the morning while I was still at work to let me know of the plan and needs. I got a call at 3:30pm when I got out of work (two hours later than I anticipated getting out of work no less and originally I was going to leave straight from work to go to help). Now I just don't feel like helping anymore. I think instead I'll go to a movie and take a walk and just lounge around on this beautiful day instead.
I'll enjoy my day off more.
On a side and quite happy note, 6 weeks (and 7 & 1/2 hours) til I'm leavin' on a jetplane to a land down under to hang out with Paul Hogan... That's what you people do down there, right? Kick it with Dundee? Right?
I had a friend, that used to flake ALL the fucking time. It would get to the point where I'd be standing where we were supposed to meet, to then get a text to say she wasn't coming. That, coupled with her constant cheating on her boyfriend, and general sucky outlook on life.. I just gave up.
Unfortunately I've bumped into her from time to time, but I really want nothing to do with her.
Taking advantage of other peoples generosity sucks. Your friend sucks
PS. I'd love to see you kick your own ass