justme159

This is a true story~~~people actually said these two things to me today...and it upset me very much (i'm feeling better now, by the way, but at the time, i was extremely upset)

Things NOT to say to me...

1) Wow, you've gotten so big in the last week

2) Wow, even your workout clothes are starting to get a little small for you because you're getting so big

Yeah, hello, i know i am getting bigger. i see it every freakin' day. please don't feel the need to point it out. and if you think i'll find humor in it or take it as a compliment, please realize that you are wrong.

remember...pregnant=hormonal=extra sensitive about things such as weight gain

Now, lets make a little list of things that are ok to say (yes, you must stroke my LEO-ego)...

1) Wow, 7 months? You look more like 5 months.

2) I don't see much difference at all (as if I'd actually believe this, but its a nice thought, right?)

3) You look great (that's right...keep it simple)