So, I actually have a semi-serious question (stemming from last nights sexy time with Miss Kat) that I'd like to ask. I'm well aware it has been brought up in the Anal Sex Group however I figured I'd blog about it as well. Now then, question: Why is it that a large majority of men are so very uncomfortable when it comes to their own asshole? They're almost always all for shoving a finger or more up their partners backdoor but when the gal decides to turn the tables their man is sudden less open minded.
Now mind you, I know this isn't always the case. There are plenty of guys out there who actually enjoy receiving anal play, but it seems that for some, if not most, it is okay for them to dish it out but not to take it. I can understand if a guy actually did try it and wasn't impressed (because not everyone enjoys the same stuff) but it'd seem that for a vast majority of naysayers they haven't even given it a shot.
That is what I don't understand. They're perfectly fine with trying to convince their lady friend that it'll be tons of fun but when their turn rolls around they quickly dismiss it. I mean, is it a homophobia type of thing? If they were to actually enjoy anal stimulation they'd magically become gay? There isn't anything wrong with homosexuality mind you, not a single damn thing, but does the thought of spending all their time at Bed Bath and Beyond with their new friend Steve frighten them so? Obviously I'm just being a smart ass and playing into stereotypes but I can't help but wonder if that is what is really going through their heads.
Let me break it down for those that are so opposed to giving it a shot. You're just flat crazy. There are so many nerve endings in that area that you'd be insane to totally ignore it. Having a prostate induced orgasm is most likely the most powerful one you'll ever have and if you expect your girl to bend over for you on a dime you probably should at least be open to the idea of doing the same. I promise your cat won't think of you differently and he certainly won't think you're gay. He reserves such shock only for Dumbeldore.
Now mind you, I know this isn't always the case. There are plenty of guys out there who actually enjoy receiving anal play, but it seems that for some, if not most, it is okay for them to dish it out but not to take it. I can understand if a guy actually did try it and wasn't impressed (because not everyone enjoys the same stuff) but it'd seem that for a vast majority of naysayers they haven't even given it a shot.
That is what I don't understand. They're perfectly fine with trying to convince their lady friend that it'll be tons of fun but when their turn rolls around they quickly dismiss it. I mean, is it a homophobia type of thing? If they were to actually enjoy anal stimulation they'd magically become gay? There isn't anything wrong with homosexuality mind you, not a single damn thing, but does the thought of spending all their time at Bed Bath and Beyond with their new friend Steve frighten them so? Obviously I'm just being a smart ass and playing into stereotypes but I can't help but wonder if that is what is really going through their heads.
Let me break it down for those that are so opposed to giving it a shot. You're just flat crazy. There are so many nerve endings in that area that you'd be insane to totally ignore it. Having a prostate induced orgasm is most likely the most powerful one you'll ever have and if you expect your girl to bend over for you on a dime you probably should at least be open to the idea of doing the same. I promise your cat won't think of you differently and he certainly won't think you're gay. He reserves such shock only for Dumbeldore.