justjinni

i am so sick of the little boys that masquerade as men whining and complaining about being in "the friend zone."

i always hear the same bullshit: "she only dates assholes, but comes to cry on my shoulder!"

here's something for the boy-children to chew on: you are the biggest assholes of all. you're not nice guys. you're cowards. by demanding that us girls give in to your will and surrender ourselves to your desires, you are boiling us down to nothing but mindless sexual automatons, who have no purpose but to please you. and the worst part? you think we fucking owe it to you, just because you want it...you make it our fault that you're sad and lonely. if we would just subjugate ourselves to your will, everything in your life would perfect...

at least the cocksure asshole who lets me know up front that he's only interested in fucking me is being honest. he allows me a choice. do i fuck him, knowing that that's all he wants, or do i pass? but the manipulative little worms that pretend to be our friends, allow us to get close and open our hearts, and then feel that we owe them sex?

those are the real monsters.

i have been raped. i have had sexuality forced on me in brutal fashion. i have sold my body for money, for food, for shelter, for comfort. i have never sold my heart. i have never sold my soul. those i give freely to people i trust and love. to have that trust betrayed is far worse than any physical assault.

so, all those guys who claim to be nice, who claim to be feminists, who claim to love and support women...just remember, if you have ever whined about being in the "friend zone," you are actually the worst kind of man. you are the ones who make us distrustful, who make us question our own self-worth, who drive us to define ourselves by our sexuality instead of our minds...because you prove the theory that all any man wants is to get his dick sucked.

so, to all the man-children and their "friend-zone" bullshit...

FUCK YOU!