ok, so my head has stopped exploding for now. thanks to all who showed caring and compassion.
ta2dmom:
Hmmmmm I'm glad your head stopped exploding. That's never a good thing to have happen. I hope it doesn't happen again. Do you have migrains? Glad you feel better. 
d_day:
Damn, I missed the opportunity for sucking up. In other news, you've not been seen round +1.