Wednesday Aug 22, 2007

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I hate to blog two blogs in a row about boys. One boy in partitcular.

To make a long story short. Boy and I were friends, randomly decided it would be nice to hang out. Since I was in the same town as him anyways.

We hang out, fool around, I end up going back to his apartment, and basically everything except sex happens.

The next day I realize, I really like the boy. Not because we fooled around, but the things he did when we weren't fooling around, and what a sweet guy is really is.

So I decide to tell such boy how I feel, how I have a crush on him and could really see us being together. He replies with how he wants to go back to how things were BEFORE we fooled around. And just be friends.

I'm really not sure how to take this.
To be completly honest, i cried my eyes out the entire night over this.

But where do I go from here? He still wants to be friends and hang out. But he says he does not want to fool around when we hang out.


I dunno. I think I should just give up on guys in general. They seem to only have sex on there minds.

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dannydmc:

Sounds like me and some of my friends (who happen to be girls) over the years; except we never got to the point of making out, sadly enough.
I've been there, it sucks.
My Dad's old advice was always to tell them "I've got enough friends, I don't need anymore. Either we date or I don't see you again"
Unfortuantely, you run the risk of them taking option number 2, which neither of you want :/

BTW< yes; changing your look DOES rule. I'm really enjoying this greaser style right now. Its fairly unique in the area, I get to primp myself up a bit and take pride in how I look, but NOT be a Metro(thank god) as its a totally masculine look.
I'm really diggin it biggrin
captknutz:
Wow, I can really really identify with this one. I'd say take it how he said it, he wants to hang out and not fool around or go any farther. This is one of those things you just can't change, cause you can't change anyone but yourself. My deepest sypamthies though, this ones happened to me before mulitple times, and it wasn't until recently that I found myself on the other end of this one, and that sucked too, it made me feel guilty that someone else felt a certain way about me, but I didn't feel that way about them. I continued to hang out with her as "just friends" until I realized she was constantly trying to change my mind and that by hanging out with her I was just giving her false hopes that it was working.

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