juggalette420

Alis volat propiis..

It's a Latin quotation that means " She flies with her own wings "
Really What is most important is that you find Security and love within yourself first. A very hard thing to do when one feels alone with walls all around. I know none of this is my bussiness. But It was blogged and thus I Comment and say what I Might in hopes that it helps.. Feel free to disregard any and everthing I say because If life has taught me anything it is simply that I am an ass and I dont have a clue.. Actually thats a pretty liberating feeling..

1. What has happened in the past cannot be "fixed" I'm sure you know this. But in the context of relationships it seems the past bites people in the ass alot.. Focus on the present moment to moment being the person you want to be.

2. Regaining trust takes time.. Months *if lucky* year or years more often than not. It's a price I have to pay everytime I pet another cat.. *Mine is very jealous*

3. Take a time out and get yourself some perspective. It's nearly impossible but sitting back and looking in from the outside can really help.. I do it by putting myself in the other persons skin. Hokey I know but it's helped me prolong the death of several of my many unsucessful relationships.. Thats Right I suck.. But I do wish you well. =)