For crying out loud! Hung around after work just to watch this chick sing and wind up being introduced to the boyfriend who I had no prior intention of meeting. I mean why go to all the trouble of inviting your work crush to something like that, when you have already clearly crossed a line outside of your failing relationship, only to complicate the matter for the single guy who was content to be flirting with you while patiently and respectfully biding his time? Fuck it. 
And thanks for the request