jridg

Hello fellow freaks and geeks (anyone know or remember that show?)

Been a busy busy day and I have been working too freakin hard. At least I got to go flying for an hour or so.

anyway, I wanted to give todays life lesson. I have a feeling this one will be seen as VERY controversial as many of you here will probably disagree. The fact of the matter is that I have been there and know this to be true - at least for me - sooooo, don't look at me like I have just read and think and learn.......

4. Sex is not what it's all about.

Yes, I am crazy. But it's the truth. There is something superb about great sex. It can make you happy for while. You can even have a relationahip based upon sex, for a while. The thing is, sex is great and nice and can be awesome and wonderful. But it is not the basis for a relationship.

I have had lots and lots of experiences. Some of them were amazing, some of them were terrible. The overriding factor for all of it is that it doesn't solve anything and you can have a superb relationship without it. Believe it. I know that when you are younger and full of hormones it doesn't seem true. But now that I am a teeny bit older and still full of hormones I can tell you that it is still important, but it is not an ender.

So, live, love, and screw your brains out if it makes you happy.

Ciao folks - until next time.