jondregiant

I would make sure that you're clear with everyone about things...because once you start seeing one person more often, that is becoming more serious..and seeing someone else kinda isn't right.

You guys are righf if course. I think I will wait until my first date with the second girl and then let them both kniw what is going on (afterall, the date may not go so well and sort itself out). My problem is that the first girl Ive only hung out with 3 times over 4 months and our chatting kind of stagnates from time to time. When we do hang out it seems to go great, but it's so rare, and our communication is so irregular that I dont know how it will work. On the otherhand, the second girl seems great too, but we haven't met yet, so I cant say for sure if I'd want to ever see her again.
So am I doing wrong by even seeing this second girl at all? Shoukd i continue as I am and make things clear after this first date? Or should I just drop them both and start anew?
As you can tell im not so good with dating, and I usually have a hard time finding one person who is interested in me let alone two if them! I guess I'm just confused. Thanks fof all of your help!