This topic is a little more deep than usual. The last couple of weeks have been well kinda different for me. Me and my wife who I honestly adore and love has been rocky for awhile. We started therapy because we decided we need someone outside to give use their insight from the outside. I say that because I'm at a loss as to how to understand or proceed. Our troubles is normal everyday occurring problems. Cleaning, money, sex, ect. So we have recently been having sex alot less. She doesn't masturbate or is even horny lately. She always asked why the cleaning isnt done even though I try to clean when I'm home because we are different shifts. It's getting really hard. I love her very much but it's like she wants me to take care of everything instead of it being split. Like she told me it's my job to try and make her horny and try different things to try and turn her on so we can have the sexy time but 9 times out of 10 it just irritates her and makes her upset. I dont want my first marriage to end, hell she is the woman who gives me peace but at the same time she wants to text her coworker all the time and never wants to come home and hang out at her shop after she gets off work. I'm struggling to be the man she wants and not be jealous but at the same time it seems like she isnt even interested in me. She is wonderful and has so much to give but it's like I never am able to give everything she wants. Honestly its likes most of the time she wants a father to take care of her rather than a husband. I'm depressed and overwhelmed. We hardly have our sexy time and love time and when we do it's like she just wants it to be over. I told her I would try more to turn her on if that's what she wants but the passed 2 times I have tried it has just pissed her off. Is there any advice you all could give? I'm at a lost for what I should do.
As always you are all beautiful and amazing. Never let anyone tell you otherwise!
