I hate breakups but I love what happens to me afterwords!!! I always get so damn self empowered. "you know what man,... fuck that shit, it's time to take you're head out of your ass and better yourself. your hung up over that chick?!?!?!?!" and I'm off and running. It's a bummer for sure, defining yourself by who your with is a dangerous habbit to fall in to. Never mean to but I always get so damned into it. WTF. Anyways work is a bitch but it gets me through,.. school is nice, it reminds me that there is life outside the navy,... and my recently adopted felines have saved me from technical insanity (I'm talking to them, not myself),... (ok maybe not).... more to come....