Ha, I knew it. The second you start to project the idea that you're taken, the possibilities come crawling out of the woodwork. Another chick I've been seeing strictly as friends for months now tells me she's been crushing on me all along. That's nuts, since I flat out told her I was chasing the one I'm with now. Plus we had "that" talk a while back, and she denied interest in me.
So she's an option anytime I want it, but I just don't. I couldn't get along with her everyday, and although pretty, she's not worth losing 2 friendships over by doing something stupid. Too immature, also. She is still as naive and virginal as I was at 17. Except we're both over 27.
Of course my woman noticed real quick. She's been telling me all along how this girl is after me. I played it down, but now it's an issue. I've said as plainly as I can that she has me and needs not feel threatened by the waif, but it doesn't seem to sink in. She's a little jealous and keeps getting depressed by thinking of what the other girl can offer me that she can't. That lack of confidence is a turn-off :-(
So she's an option anytime I want it, but I just don't. I couldn't get along with her everyday, and although pretty, she's not worth losing 2 friendships over by doing something stupid. Too immature, also. She is still as naive and virginal as I was at 17. Except we're both over 27.
Of course my woman noticed real quick. She's been telling me all along how this girl is after me. I played it down, but now it's an issue. I've said as plainly as I can that she has me and needs not feel threatened by the waif, but it doesn't seem to sink in. She's a little jealous and keeps getting depressed by thinking of what the other girl can offer me that she can't. That lack of confidence is a turn-off :-(