The sex has been great in my latest relationship. Problem is, we started out as friends. We're still friends and enjoying the benefits, but I can tell she wants more. I don't... not yet, anyway. We're very compatible, but she lacks that extra *wow* quality I want to admire in a woman. She's intelligent but not imaginative. She's good, but (unlike Frosted Flakes) not grrrrreat.
For the most part, she's pretty good about not getting too heavy with words and feelings she knows don't belong in our casual intimacy. Sometimes the L-word slips out though, or she fishes for compliments. What we have isn't meaningless, but I wish she'd stop pushing for it to be the most meaningful thing in her life.
I'll miss you when my account expires, Xip. But you know where I'm reachable for years to come. Don't be a stranger. You've let me have a sip of your life and I'm intoxicated by that little.
For the most part, she's pretty good about not getting too heavy with words and feelings she knows don't belong in our casual intimacy. Sometimes the L-word slips out though, or she fishes for compliments. What we have isn't meaningless, but I wish she'd stop pushing for it to be the most meaningful thing in her life.
I'll miss you when my account expires, Xip. But you know where I'm reachable for years to come. Don't be a stranger. You've let me have a sip of your life and I'm intoxicated by that little.
I'm going through a similar sitch with my ex right now... we still fuck like animals and I LIKE him... but he just isn't passionate, and he doesn't pursue things that interest him... he prefers to watch tv, play video games, and smoke pot... he's just unstimulated...which doesn't stimulate me.. I'm waiting for someone who cares about SOMETHING
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