The ex called me last night... we were together for five years, and when she left it pretty much destroyed me. I spent months carefully building my wall up and she just decided to come along last night and tear it to pieces.
Addendum:
As a wtf, I was in Wegmans today (grocery store), and was asked, subtley, if I would go home with a a gay couple for a what I believe was a threesome. I was discussing cheese with them (I'm a cheese snob), and they got very forward after a few minutes of chatting...
"How would you like to come back to our place?"
"I'm... flattered, but I just went through a really bad breakup"
They were very consoling. I don't know if they were aware I'm not gay.
Addendum:
As a wtf, I was in Wegmans today (grocery store), and was asked, subtley, if I would go home with a a gay couple for a what I believe was a threesome. I was discussing cheese with them (I'm a cheese snob), and they got very forward after a few minutes of chatting...
"How would you like to come back to our place?"
"I'm... flattered, but I just went through a really bad breakup"
They were very consoling. I don't know if they were aware I'm not gay.
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I think gay folk in the Bay area have a better awareness of who is and who isn't. If you're in the situation where you feel like you need to declare a side, I've found that lots of "yo," "dude," and "on HELL NAH" clues 'em in enough.