ARRRGGGG im so happy with myself lately but why do partners have to make everything a competition???
So catch up, I broke up with my boyfriend, I dated another guy and during this time my ex really proved himself to me. He treated me like gold. As the new boyfriend was, admittadly from both sides, just a bit of fun, and my ex was the love of my life, I went back with my ex. But we have argued so much and I have been so pissy with him and he with me. We even woke up the other morning and started an argument with eachother, where I felt he got rather agressive as he snapped and grabbed me really tightly I thought I would bruise and I could barely move. Any other time we have been great but we keep trying to resolved past issues so we can move forward and it just turns into an argument and really frustrating. And a competition.
He is friends with his ex fuck buddy, and I mean BEST friends, and me and her hate eachother. I wana drive the bus that squashes the bitch. As she hurt me incredibly and has continued to make up lies about me and such. Plus shes obsessed with my boyfriend. So we have these debates and competition arguments of "you and letty was worse than me and J!" "you and J was worse than me and letty" "no cause I never slept with him!" arrrhh!!!!!
I just duno what to do. I would suggest more time apart or something but it didnt work last time, we always end up in bed together and talking about how smitten we are and stuff.
Im fed up of putting up with his letty crap, her phoning him all the time and he doesnt answer it around me and i say "why is she calling?" and he says "i duno...she doesnt know im with you" "why not?" then he rolls his eyes at me. He is really jealous of me and J and how we are still friends and im like, well, welcome to my shoes, try them on.
He barely talks. its frustrating. i wana know how he feels and what hes thinking. I love him but my God!! Letty needs to back off.
So catch up, I broke up with my boyfriend, I dated another guy and during this time my ex really proved himself to me. He treated me like gold. As the new boyfriend was, admittadly from both sides, just a bit of fun, and my ex was the love of my life, I went back with my ex. But we have argued so much and I have been so pissy with him and he with me. We even woke up the other morning and started an argument with eachother, where I felt he got rather agressive as he snapped and grabbed me really tightly I thought I would bruise and I could barely move. Any other time we have been great but we keep trying to resolved past issues so we can move forward and it just turns into an argument and really frustrating. And a competition.
He is friends with his ex fuck buddy, and I mean BEST friends, and me and her hate eachother. I wana drive the bus that squashes the bitch. As she hurt me incredibly and has continued to make up lies about me and such. Plus shes obsessed with my boyfriend. So we have these debates and competition arguments of "you and letty was worse than me and J!" "you and J was worse than me and letty" "no cause I never slept with him!" arrrhh!!!!!
I just duno what to do. I would suggest more time apart or something but it didnt work last time, we always end up in bed together and talking about how smitten we are and stuff.
Im fed up of putting up with his letty crap, her phoning him all the time and he doesnt answer it around me and i say "why is she calling?" and he says "i duno...she doesnt know im with you" "why not?" then he rolls his eyes at me. He is really jealous of me and J and how we are still friends and im like, well, welcome to my shoes, try them on.
He barely talks. its frustrating. i wana know how he feels and what hes thinking. I love him but my God!! Letty needs to back off.
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been there. It sucks. Hope it works out.
Those kinds of situations are sketchy.
If you trust him it's cool, sometimes exes can be just that... but those times are few and far between. I hope that it's just that.