Come on guys. message me before thinking we can be friends.
On another note, as your community physician, I'd like to recommend against paying money to fly out and stay with your ex when they're even remotely involved with anyone. Yes, I speak from experience, as mine is probably failing miserably at attempting to have "quiet" sex in the room below me, just like last night. Yes, the walls and floors are thinner than anyone realizes, and yes, it's incredibly awkward. In fact, if you're not prepared for it, it's incredibly painful as well, to the point that I was seriously planning how to leave town as quickly as possible.
However, should you find yourself in this situation, I do recommend the following:
1. Take 3 Benadryl and put your headphones or earplugs in. Try your best to breathe rhythmically and deeply, and clear your mind until the Benadryl kicks in.
2. When you wake up you'll most likely feel a bit more calm about things, but don't be surprised if you're still considering the previous nights frantic plans.
3. Now. If you're really still sore about things, make the arrangements, and get the hell out. There is absolutely no sense in trying to be the "good person" and continuing to tolerate this kind of torture.
or
If you're like me, and still consider your ex a good person, and are genuinely interested in retaining some semblance of a friendship, patiently distract yourself with something to occupy your brain for a while, until you can have a serious discussion with said sex-offenser. You may find that his heart-to-heart gives you the chance to directly and succinctly express your annoyances, thereby lifting this weight from your chest. You may find that this honesty and consideration, that this friend is worth your effort to work it out, actually convinces said friend to give you the courtesy of not flaunting their new "toys" in your ears while you're their guest. You may actually find that this discussion leads to an unexpected bonding experience, and that it may very well open up the KY-clogged lines of communication between you, and allow you to let go some of your old feelings for this person. Indeed, you may very well be surprised.
I still don't think I should be here, but I'm a bit better now, and I think I can stick it out for another 36h. Frankly, with tmrw's weather, I have to, but that's neither here nor there. These past two months have been by far the most absurd of my life in so many ways. I'll write more about it later, to be sure, but this hellish roller coaster ain't over yet, so stay tuned.
On another note, as your community physician, I'd like to recommend against paying money to fly out and stay with your ex when they're even remotely involved with anyone. Yes, I speak from experience, as mine is probably failing miserably at attempting to have "quiet" sex in the room below me, just like last night. Yes, the walls and floors are thinner than anyone realizes, and yes, it's incredibly awkward. In fact, if you're not prepared for it, it's incredibly painful as well, to the point that I was seriously planning how to leave town as quickly as possible.
However, should you find yourself in this situation, I do recommend the following:
1. Take 3 Benadryl and put your headphones or earplugs in. Try your best to breathe rhythmically and deeply, and clear your mind until the Benadryl kicks in.
2. When you wake up you'll most likely feel a bit more calm about things, but don't be surprised if you're still considering the previous nights frantic plans.
3. Now. If you're really still sore about things, make the arrangements, and get the hell out. There is absolutely no sense in trying to be the "good person" and continuing to tolerate this kind of torture.
or
If you're like me, and still consider your ex a good person, and are genuinely interested in retaining some semblance of a friendship, patiently distract yourself with something to occupy your brain for a while, until you can have a serious discussion with said sex-offenser. You may find that his heart-to-heart gives you the chance to directly and succinctly express your annoyances, thereby lifting this weight from your chest. You may find that this honesty and consideration, that this friend is worth your effort to work it out, actually convinces said friend to give you the courtesy of not flaunting their new "toys" in your ears while you're their guest. You may actually find that this discussion leads to an unexpected bonding experience, and that it may very well open up the KY-clogged lines of communication between you, and allow you to let go some of your old feelings for this person. Indeed, you may very well be surprised.
I still don't think I should be here, but I'm a bit better now, and I think I can stick it out for another 36h. Frankly, with tmrw's weather, I have to, but that's neither here nor there. These past two months have been by far the most absurd of my life in so many ways. I'll write more about it later, to be sure, but this hellish roller coaster ain't over yet, so stay tuned.
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fatality:
How are rotations? What have you had so far?!
rydell:
HEY thanks
It is a little less swollen now
It is a little less swollen now